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I think you should consult with your wife. But the fact remains that if you wish to change your present arrangement, which seems quite comfortable, for a job in the services, compromises will have to be made. It is up to you and your wife to decide how to make things work. As for the gentleman with the rather amusing view about life in a metro, there isn't much to hope except that the PDF never has his roll number.
There is no social life when both husband and wife are professionals.
I have many friends in Bangalore/Pune who are in IT/software sector and they very well narrate what is happening in the name of "women empowerment".
One of my friends in Accenture tells that he had physical relations with her co-staff who is married and her husband is in ONGC. Her husband has blind faith in her and thinks that he is giving some sort of freedom to his wife to achieve her professional goals.
But eventually if you would like to verify it, you can call up and ask any of your friends in such areas about what is happening there? There has been flood of such incidents in which wife living apart from her husband in other town is eventually making full use of her freedom, and their stupid husbands take pride in the feeling of giving their wives free hand in a society where free sex is on bloom.
The friend i am telling about has just had a recent encounter (i.e. sex) with that girl (married) in Royal Orchid hotel in Bangalore. There are plenty of such incidents that are on rise and that is totally NATURAL because a woman today has multiple options to satisfy her lust if her husband is living outside.
This is also the reason that educated and professional girls nowadays prefer those men to be their husbands who can give her FREEDOM because they know that such stupid men are a boon for them and they can enjoy this Freedom with any men of their liking....
:-)
@all it feels great to read fellow aspirants reply to @Victor so nice to see such paradigm shift in way men view working women... More delightful is the way you all are standing up for a gender insensitive comment.. One thing is sure when you people crack the exam and enter the academy some positive changes will be induced in the way the world perceives women... Kudos to u all ^:)^ ^:)^ ^:)^
Same problem here. I am married, husband works in an MNC. We are going to see how the future folds out, because you can never plan these things. Even if I think I'll be able to manage both lives with equal care and caution, I can trip and fall flat on my face from day one. My husband and in laws are very supportive and my husband knows this is what I really want so I know he is going to do all he can, to make it work. He loves his job too much to quit and our society is not that advanced to accept a husband to sits at home so his wife can chase her dream. My main concern is keeping the egos at bay and I am sure we will find a solution for any problem. I got through this time so maybe 6 months down the lane, I'll be able to advise you from experience.
@rrb14 bhai sabhi ko pata hai ki chay(tea) kaise banta hai..lekin khud ke banaye chay ka bhi daily test alag alag hota hai.. moral of story::how can you take decsn based on others exper. situation which is working fine for others may become night mare for you or vice-versa..discuss with your spouse..
@victor aapke vichar bahut had tak sahi hain..aajkal internet pe women emp. ka bat karna ek fashion ban chuka hai..but reality bahut alag hai..
extra marital affr ke liye man and women dono hi equal jimedar hain..couples ka ek dusre se dur alag city me rahne se koi farak nahi padta hai..mai manta hun ki aishe logon ke dna me hi ye rahta hai..aise log agar apne partner ke sath rahen phir bhi aisa karenge..EK saccha premi/pati/patni/premika apni jan de dega/degi par kabhi bewafai nahi karega/karegi @victor bhai kabhi saccha pyar karo aaj bhi india me pyar me jan dene walo ki kami nahi..
There is no social life when both husband and wife are professionals.
I have many friends in Bangalore/Pune who are in IT/software sector and they very well narrate what is happening in the name of "women empowerment".
One of my friends in Accenture tells that he had physical relations with her co-staff who is married and her husband is in ONGC. Her husband has blind faith in her and thinks that he is giving some sort of freedom to his wife to achieve her professional goals.
But eventually if you would like to verify it, you can call up and ask any of your friends in such areas about what is happening there? There has been flood of such incidents in which wife living apart from her husband in other town is eventually making full use of her freedom, and their stupid husbands take pride in the feeling of giving their wives free hand in a society where free sex is on bloom.
The friend i am telling about has just had a recent encounter (i.e. sex) with that girl (married) in Royal Orchid hotel in Bangalore. There are plenty of such incidents that are on rise and that is totally NATURAL because a woman today has multiple options to satisfy her lust if her husband is living outside.
This is also the reason that educated and professional girls nowadays prefer those men to be their husbands who can give her FREEDOM because they know that such stupid men are a boon for them and they can enjoy this Freedom with any men of their liking....
:-)
@all it feels great to read fellow aspirants reply to @Victor so nice to see such paradigm shift in way men view working women... More delightful is the way you all are standing up for a gender insensitive comment.. One thing is sure when you people crack the exam and enter the academy some positive changes will be induced in the way the world perceives women... Kudos to u all ^:)^ ^:)^ ^:)^
I started it.
mai aap jaise hi internet kranti-kariyon ki bat kar raha tha..
In the case of "PATI ONGC ME , BIVI MAUJ ME " It is 100% fault of women , why ?? because she is married , she is cheating on her husband , she is breaking marriage vows, she is breaking her husband's trust , on the other hand victor's friend is not married , he is not cheating anybody , he is not breaking anybody's trust. so why are you blaming him??
People say men are more likely to cheat because,they report it more frequently than women do.
Are women more likely to hide their sexual infidelities more often than men? The answer to that is simple: yes!
Why? Because our culture tends to praise men for their "sexual prowess" and call women bad names for the same type of behaviors. So, men tend to "boast" more about it and women tend to feel more ashamed about it. But in reality women are biggest cheat they are just better lying it.
The bonds of marriage have a religious, social and legal sanction in India. Thus, any sexual liaison that defies this bond spells noncompliance with social norms. It is a violation of the sacred marriage vows religiously and morally held to be sacrosanct and is punishable under the laws of the land. Bigamy for all non-Muslims is a crime vide Section 494 of the IPC. Why should women remain immune to the law today? The basic rationale behind criminalising adultery is to protect the sanctity of the institution of marriage. But unlike other countries, the law in India is biased against men in as much as a woman cannot be prosecuted for adultery even when she is an abettor.she is always considered as VICTIM & not as a cheater. As the law stands today, adultery is only committed against the husband of the adulterous woman. A man cannot level an adultery charge against his wife but can do so against the "other man." The Indian law treats wives as their husbands' property and considers adultery is an offence that a man commits by trespassing upon the property (wife) of another. That is why she is not liable as an abettor.
A famous example is that of Indian Navy Commander KM Nanavati who shot dead businessman Prem Ahuja for his illicit relationship with his wife Sylvia. While Nanavati faced prosecution, Sylvia went scot free.
The Justice Malimath Committee, which was tasked with suggesting reforms for the criminal justice system, had in 2003 suggested changes to make Section 497 gender-neutral. "Society abhors marital infidelity. Therefore, there is no reason for not meting out similar treatment to the wife who has sexual intercourse with a man (other than her husband)," it said.
However, the National Commission for Women (NCW) chairperson Mamta Sharma said , "Women should not be punished for adultery, as they are victims and not offenders in such cases." The NCW wanted amendment to Section 198 of CrPC to allow women to file complaints against unfaithful husbands. the NCW said Section 497 should not be made gender neutral.""--that is equality according to feminism ha ha ha .
It is high time we change this law because it is based on the concept that women are chattel and, therefore, can commit no offence. If a man commits (adultery) it's a crime and if a woman commits adultery, it's not.
Because women file 80% of divorces. Most marriages are the way that in a divorce money goes from hubby to wifey, not the other way around. Therefore an unhappy wife is more likely to divorce, what is she gonna loose ? The man she doesnt like anymore in the first place. However a man looses his children ,house ,car, money ,his paychecks etc . wife ko bus ye bolna hai ki husband ne mujhe mara ..... & she will get sympathy .
@all Guys, Please keep your personal opinions about any gender (male/female/transgender) to yourselves. Don't pollute and send negative vibes to others.
@moderators please, close this unhealthy discussion !! I think @rrb14 got enough inputs, he might be wondering what did I ask and what on earth is being discussed !!
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As for the gentleman with the rather amusing view about life in a metro, there isn't much to hope except that the PDF never has his roll number.
He loves his job too much to quit and our society is not that advanced to accept a husband to sits at home so his wife can chase her dream. My main concern is keeping the egos at bay and I am sure we will find a solution for any problem. I got through this time so maybe 6 months down the lane, I'll be able to advise you from experience.
moral of story::how can you take decsn based on others exper. situation which is working fine for others may become night mare for you or vice-versa..discuss with your spouse..
@victor
aapke vichar bahut had tak sahi hain..aajkal internet pe women emp. ka bat karna ek fashion ban chuka hai..but reality bahut alag hai..
extra marital affr ke liye man and women dono hi equal jimedar hain..couples ka ek dusre se dur alag city me rahne se koi farak nahi padta hai..mai manta hun ki aishe logon ke dna me hi ye rahta hai..aise log agar apne partner ke sath rahen phir bhi aisa karenge..EK saccha premi/pati/patni/premika apni jan de dega/degi par kabhi bewafai nahi karega/karegi
@victor bhai kabhi saccha pyar karo aaj bhi india me pyar me jan dene walo ki kami nahi..
It is 100% fault of women , why ?? because she is married , she is cheating on her husband , she is breaking marriage vows, she is breaking her husband's trust , on the other hand victor's friend is not married , he is not cheating anybody , he is not breaking anybody's trust. so why are you blaming him??
People say men are more likely to cheat because,they report it more frequently than women do.
Are women more likely to hide their sexual infidelities more often than men? The answer to that is simple: yes!
Why? Because our culture tends to praise men for their "sexual prowess" and call women bad names for the same type of behaviors. So, men tend to "boast" more about it and women tend to feel more ashamed about it.
But in reality women are biggest cheat they are just better lying it.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html
The bonds of marriage have a religious, social and legal sanction in India. Thus, any sexual liaison that defies this bond spells noncompliance with social norms. It is a violation of the sacred marriage vows religiously and morally held to be sacrosanct and is punishable under the laws of
the land. Bigamy for all non-Muslims is a crime
vide Section 494 of the IPC. Why should women remain immune to the law today?
The basic rationale behind criminalising adultery is to protect the sanctity of the institution of marriage. But unlike other countries, the law in India is biased against men in as much as a woman cannot be prosecuted for adultery even when she is an abettor.she is always considered as VICTIM & not as a cheater.
As the law stands today, adultery is only committed against the husband of the adulterous woman. A man cannot level an adultery charge against his wife but can do so against the "other man." The Indian law treats wives as their husbands' property and considers adultery is an offence that a man commits by trespassing upon the property (wife) of another. That is why she is not liable as an abettor.
A famous example is that of Indian Navy Commander KM Nanavati who shot dead businessman Prem Ahuja for his illicit relationship with his wife Sylvia. While Nanavati faced prosecution, Sylvia went scot free.
The Justice Malimath Committee, which was tasked with suggesting reforms for the criminal justice system, had in 2003 suggested changes to make Section 497 gender-neutral. "Society abhors marital infidelity. Therefore, there is no reason for not meting out similar treatment to the wife who has sexual intercourse with a man (other than her husband)," it said.
However, the National Commission for Women (NCW) chairperson Mamta Sharma said , "Women should not be punished for adultery, as they are victims and not offenders in such cases." The NCW wanted amendment to Section 198 of CrPC to allow women to file complaints against unfaithful husbands. the NCW said Section 497 should not be made gender neutral.""--that is equality according to feminism ha ha ha .
It is high time we change this law because it is based on the concept that women are chattel and, therefore, can commit no offence. If a man commits (adultery) it's a crime and if a woman commits adultery, it's not.
http://www.thehindu.com/todays-paper/woman-gives-rs-3-lakh-supari-to-kill-husband/article4169209.ece
Now why women are blamed for divorce ??
Because women file 80% of divorces.
Most marriages are the way that in a divorce money goes from hubby to wifey, not the other way around. Therefore an unhappy wife is more likely to divorce, what is she gonna loose ? The man she doesnt like anymore in the first place. However a man looses his children ,house ,car, money ,his paychecks etc .
wife ko bus ye bolna hai ki husband ne mujhe mara ..... & she will get sympathy .
http://www.dnaindia.com/mumbai/report-hc-to-ips-officer-ex-wifes-life-should-befit-your-status-1802824
every year more than 65000 married men commit suicide as compare to 32000 married women .
ye padh lo ....
http://www.ekhusbandkimaut.blogspot.in
still women are considered as victims , ha ha ha ......
@moderators please, close this unhealthy discussion !! I think @rrb14 got enough inputs, he might be wondering what did I ask and what on earth is being discussed !!
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