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  • 1.see if u got age attempts left
    2.if yes then open UPSC.gov.in apply for civil service exam
    3.prepare well....as well as u can
    4.thank me and yourself later
  • I was working in navaratna PSU left the job missed prelims last year gave mains this year with EE optional toil too hard studied for long hours that my back developed problem... to my utter shock I could not qualify yesterday I thought of jumping from 8th floor of my flat last night...what should I do my family members hurled abuses @ me my friends made fun of me...I am thinking of suicide..
    Dear, I was in same boat last time, failed in prelims thrice continuously...left 4 govt jobs, everybody making fun of me in village...but this is just an exam, there are greater things in life than this exam...take some days break, explore your interested things, find a job and then come back to this race if you want...plz dont ever think of suicide...
  • UPSC should declare marks of non selected individual after mains result. So that they Can decide further plan
    haan bhai bahut jaruri hai aage ke plan ke lye..sala optional change karna bhi chaho to kaise kare.
  • Quit job in 2010
    2011-Mains out
    2012-Mains Out
    2013-prelims out
    2014-prelims out
    2015-Mains out
    2016-Mains out

    6 attempts exhausted, aged 29. The worst that could have happened has happened. I can either drown in self pity or move on! And I am moving on. All the best to everyone else on this thread as well :)
    Respect for you dedication bhai...I am in split mind after my 3rd attempt.
    Best wishes for your future endeavors.
  • ^^
    If it gives you any consolation, I myself went crazy for a month or so after the 19th Feb failure last year.

    I drank, broke stuff, destroyed public property, abused people, got in fight, gate crashed parties, watched extreme porn, explored my sexuality, openly favored atheism. In a nutshell, I just lived as if I was going to die the next hour.
    It's unorthodox but, it helped me!!

    An anecdote:
    I literally fought with a ticket window clerk on New Delhi railway station last year on 13th March. I mean literally fought with fists, kicks and punches. I went inside and slapped him for delaying giving me the ticket. It was a flimsy pretext. I just wanted the fight. Police arrived, my shirt was all torn, my lips were bleeding, I was beaten black and blue by railway staff and then took a laathi from police.
    But honestly, those moments were the happiest moments for me in March 2016.

    Even if I make it to IAS this time, that will be a memorable moment in my life and I'll remember it on my death bed. :|
    Thank you for sharing this sir :-)
    Had a great time reading it! All the best for your interview sir! Sara gussa nikaal dena is baar -:)
  • ^^
    If it gives you any consolation, I myself went crazy for a month or so after the 19th Feb failure last year.

    I drank, broke stuff, destroyed public property, abused people, got in fight, gate crashed parties, watched extreme porn, explored my sexuality, openly favored atheism. In a nutshell, I just lived as if I was going to die the next hour.
    It's unorthodox but, it helped me!!

    An anecdote:
    I literally fought with a ticket window clerk on New Delhi railway station last year on 13th March. I mean literally fought with fists, kicks and punches. I went inside and slapped him for delaying giving me the ticket. It was a flimsy pretext. I just wanted the fight. Police arrived, my shirt was all torn, my lips were bleeding, I was beaten black and blue by railway staff and then took a laathi from police.
    But honestly, those moments were the happiest moments for me in March 2016.

    Even if I make it to IAS this time, that will be a memorable moment in my life and I'll remember it on my death bed. :|
    i liked the idea.So far, I only want to shout out loud but can't find an open space.Sali population itni jyada hai ki kanhi bhi jaon kuch log rehte hi hain.


  • I can'nt tell u I am still crying while writing this it seems that I have no hope left in life.

    God damn it dude, don't say that... I mean honestly, don't say that... I mean don't write it out loud... And believe me, there will be worse moments in life to cry...

    Last year I was in ur boat. If not more sad, I was at least as sad and frustrated as you...I know this.

    Just remember, you are not the first person to be that sad in recent CSM failure history.

    And like I'm consoling you, no one was there to console me here on Forum. ForumIAS even banned my profile named 'madmax11630'. So, just buck up...
    Bro wht exactly wrkd fr u dis year. Wht did u change. More answer writing or more depth in studies whatt?
  • I was working in navaratna PSU left the job missed prelims last year gave mains this year with EE optional toil too hard studied for long hours that my back developed problem... to my utter shock I could not qualify yesterday I thought of jumping from 8th floor of my flat last night...what should I do my family members hurled abuses @ me my friends made fun of me...I am thinking of suicide..
    Arey boss u r already a qualified person..U can easily get other opportunities...Upsc has been a broken dream for many successful person..Who rise to much greater heights in their life.
  • edited February 2017


    I can'nt tell u I am still crying while writing this it seems that I have no hope left in life.

    God damn it dude, don't say that... I mean honestly, don't say that... I mean don't write it out loud... And believe me, there will be worse moments in life to cry...

    Last year I was in ur boat. If not more sad, I was at least as sad and frustrated as you...I know this.

    Just remember, you are not the first person to be that sad in recent CSM failure history.

    And like I'm consoling you, no one was there to console me here on Forum. ForumIAS even banned my profile named 'madmax11630'. So, just buck up...
    Bro wht exactly wrkd fr u dis year. Wht did u change. More answer writing or more depth in studies whatt?
    One word answer: Luck.

    Detailed answer:
    Last year my total was 671. General cutoff was 676. Geography was brutally butchered in 2015. In my 2014 attempt I had 275 in Geography and I cleared CSM. In 2015 I had only 181. So, now you know what happened.

    I kind of knew it was luck. I am a honors graduate from NIT Kurukshetra in Electrical with 3 years work experience. My AIEEE rank was around 6000. So, I never had doubt in my abilities.

    I wrote MPPCS Mains in April 2016 in which I later got selected. I didn't read a word of MP yet my exams went well. From there on - May 2016, my birthday month - I collected myself together, indulged positively on Forum with this profile and bounced back.

    From, there on things started turning positive.
  • ^^
    Last year during these days, I lost control of myself. I went bat-shit crazy.
    An year later, I've two pending interviews including that of CSE and one State PCS administrative job in my hand.
    Ex-MLA of my city wants to marry his daughter with me after a dowry of 70 lakhs.

    Surreal. Universe is truly mysterious. :|
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