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  • this was my third attempt and 2nd mains.. in 2015 mains i missed cutoff by few marks. this year worked very hard and exam went well. shocked to find my roll no missing. still not able to believe it. got selected as assistant commandant in 2015. took extension for this dream. 2017 will be last attempt as will have to join force in oct/nov and after joining force upsc dream will be over. just unable to find happiness
  • I was working in navaratna PSU left the job missed prelims last year gave mains this year with EE optional toil too hard studied for long hours that my back developed problem... to my utter shock I could not qualify yesterday I thought of jumping from 8th floor of my flat last night...what should I do my family members hurled abuses @ me my friends made fun of me...I am thinking of suicide..
    Arey boss u r already a qualified person..U can easily get other opportunities...Upsc has been a broken dream for many successful person..Who rise to much greater heights in their life.
    Yes bro you are correct, in my previous PSU, where I was working...the divisional manager was ex-upsc aspirant!!
  • ^^
    If it gives you any consolation, I myself went crazy for a month or so after the 19th Feb failure last year.

    I drank, broke stuff, destroyed public property, abused people, got in fight, gate crashed parties, watched extreme porn, explored my sexuality, openly favored atheism. In a nutshell, I just lived as if I was going to die the next hour.
    It's unorthodox but, it helped me!!

    An anecdote:
    I literally fought with a ticket window clerk on New Delhi railway station last year on 13th March. I mean literally fought with fists, kicks and punches. I went inside and slapped him for delaying giving me the ticket. It was a flimsy pretext. I just wanted the fight. Police arrived, my shirt was all torn, my lips were bleeding, I was beaten black and blue by railway staff and then took a laathi from police.
    But honestly, those moments were the happiest moments for me in March 2016.

    Even if I make it to IAS this time, that will be a memorable moment in my life and I'll remember it on my death bed. :|
    Kya dada, aadhi raat me kaahe liye bachchon ko araajak banaa rahe ho ?? :joy:
    Aapke comment padh ke login karnaa padaa yahan. Jabki 3G ka recharge bhi nhi h. :D
    Sir ji, emotional mat ho jao yaar. Khyaal karo bachchon ka thodaa. Aapke jaisaa maharathi emotional ho jaayega to desh kaise chalegaa. :#

    And BTW congrats for selection. I knew you'll make it. Hope to see u in LBSNAA. :p
    Check ur inbox too.
  • Guys, just relax, watch some movies, porn etc. :joy:
    This failure will blow over in no time. Just chill and hang on in there.

    All the best and Good night. :)
  • And make some smileys for God's sake. It's so gloomy in here. Jesus Christ on a scooter!! :D :D :D :D
    Non-verbal cues are very important for brain... :joy: :joy: :joy:
    :joy: :joy: :joy:
  • This was my 3rd attempt and 3rd mains with GEOGRAPHY and again could not clear mains.
    my marks in geography in 2014 were 226 and in 2015 were 196(98 each).

    Is it advisable to switch to anthropology at this point of time(though my geography was better this time than previous attempts)?????
  • I was working in navaratna PSU left the job missed prelims last year gave mains this year with EE optional toil too hard studied for long hours that my back developed problem... to my utter shock I could not qualify yesterday I thought of jumping from 8th floor of my flat last night...what should I do my family members hurled abuses @ me my friends made fun of me...I am thinking of suicide..
    Dear, I was in same boat last time, failed in prelims thrice continuously...left 4 govt jobs, everybody making fun of me in village...but this is just an exam, there are greater things in life than this exam...take some days break, explore your interested things, find a job and then come back to this race if you want...plz dont ever think of suicide...
    Which all govt jobs you left brother? Reason for asking is so that I can console myself of being jobless since I started preparation 4 years back. Mains-out.
  • @pks11630 you are from which batch of NIT kkr
  • Quit job in 2010
    2011-Mains out
    2012-Mains Out
    2013-prelims out
    2014-prelims out
    2015-Mains out
    2016-Mains out

    6 attempts exhausted, aged 29. The worst that could have happened has happened. I can either drown in self pity or move on! And I am moving on. All the best to everyone else on this thread as well :)
    ATB rolozr...2017 attempt ke baad hum bi alvida keh denge is dal dal se. Massive respect for u.
    ;now what u doing sir :| except preparation or only preparation :|
    Assistant executive engineer => state govt
  • ^^
    Last year during these days, I lost control of myself. I went bat-shit crazy.
    An year later, I've two pending interviews including that of CSE and one State PCS administrative job in my hand.
    Ex-MLA of my city wants to marry his daughter with me after a dowry of 70 lakhs.

    Surreal. Universe is truly mysterious. :|
    Then do marriage first... :)

    mazak tha bhai..
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