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How to cope with emotional pains after death of my parents(on 7th aug my mom and 2006,my father)

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  • :( stay strong brother @};-
  • Next time in my prayers i will pray to god to give you the required courage so you can face this tough moment.I do not know you but i have a strong feeling that you can over come this situation.

    Best of luck for the life ahead.
  • Shushanta, its really very sad to hear your tragic loss.. may god give you strength to fight this abysmal low..
    Just remember you can make your parents happy (as they r there with u till eternity) by clearing IAS.. best of luck..
    N one more thing, whenever you feel low, you can certainly share, anything you want, at this forum.. we will be glad to talk to you..
  • edited August 2014
    Dear Brother @sushanta123 I request u to understand the universal fact that everyone has to die sooner or later. Those who live for others ll always be considered as immortal, God has gvn u a chance to be great role model for others by becoming an IAS. I believe tht after becoming one u can support the orphan children n AIDS victims thn u ll realize tht diverting our eyes frm our sorrow n pain to others would be reason to rebound n live for the great cause of humanity. I request u watch video of Mr.Shah Faisal & Late. Steve Jobs @ Stanford. It'll help u a lot. I wish God provide u all strength n wisdom at this very moment to cope wd the sudden demise of ur beloved mother.

    PS: Always remember we at @forumias are always by u.
  • @all hey friends n seniors I have decided to appear prelims this year.when I m connecting my mom,c always said,u very to move ahead.m with u.u ve to do so many things for d society.lost of my mom ve made me more stronger and bold to face d upcoming struggle.I will try my best in exam without hoping of results n in 2015,I want to c my name in gazzate notification n it will b with ma parent's blessings.thanx u @all for standing with me n providing moral n emotional support.thnx for being my 2nd family my dear @ForumIAS.
  • @sushanta123 exactly i know another person who have same situation like this but he is now IAS in Andhra Pradesh. His father was dead and his mother passed away few days before mains 2011 inspite of that he become IAS the same year. It is a great loss to you I don't have words to console you. In your situation i will be totally devastated but you are very brave. since I got separated from my father early age and i was brought up by mother. she always used to say what ever happened to me you should be brave and be successful in life I hope your mother also have thought in same manner. your success and wellbeing is the only wish your mother would have in mind. so work hard and i wish you all the best for this year 2014 and hope you will be successful.
  • Sorry about irrecoverable loss of yours. May the souls of your parents RIP.For you, at this stage, it must become really hard to apply what you think in theory. The aggrived mind doesn't support at all. All I can say, have faith and patience.
    A few years ago, terrorists in my area killed a govt school teacher. The teacher's son had to take state level medical entrance exam the very next day. The son qualified the exam. On completion of MBBS, he was awarded gold medal for having topped the university. Next year, he became the first Muslim/Kashmiri guy to top IAS, that too in first attempt. His name is Shah Faesal.
  • @sushanta123 i am extremely sorry for your loss and know its impossible to replace the void. But if it can be any inspiration for you, our generation's hero - shah faesal - lost his father 3 days before his mbbs entrance exam (killed by militants). And look what he did after that.
  • dear @crazyphoton gaurav agrawal sir,m very much inspired by your response.yes sir,I will come back with much vigour and speed n 2015 will b mine.thnx for ur moral support.
  • thnx all of u for ur kind support.
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