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@sushanta123 Brother...i feel for u...its the hardest time of ur life...and the feeling is the worst anyone can have... U can make ur parents ur strength...u know they will be watching u and wherever they are wouldnt they love to see their child achieve what he is destined too... May god help u overcome this period of grief ..
Sorry to hear about your loss. May god give you the required strength to deal with it. Do you have siblings? Do talk to them and for a month or so dont go back to studies. Try not to sit alone for long time. Also talk to your friends and try to keep yourself engaged in some work. I may not feel what u are feeling right now. If you have dreamed of becoming an IAS for your parents and now they are not with you physically but they will be with in you always. Try to gain your inner strength and get back to your old confidence level and fullfill your parents's dream. Good luck buddy. May god bless you.
I can empathize with you bro. I lost my mom to cancer a couple of years ago. All I can say is that the pain eases away with time, though it can never completely disappear. If you make it to the services this time, I can guarantee you that a few years down the line you will be looking back and feeling proud of yourself for such a mega achievement. You might be having siblings or close relatives. By the grace of Allah, you will get a loving and beautiful wife. When you yourself father a child, I hope that your worries will melt away. You can relive your time with your parents, just in a different role. This is just a very deep low in your life but I can promise you that things will get better.
don't be alone and try to divert your mind to anything which occupies u, and I'd suggest u take the exam if u were preparing for it. sorry for the irreparable loss all the best
Sorry to hear about your loss buddy, but your parents might be in a better world now and wherever they are, they must be overseeing you and every part of your life...thats not science, thats what I believe. This is, undoubtly, a tough time for you,, but this exam is not only your fight, this was their dream too.
Now you should try even harder to make through this time. I dont know about your family and situations, but I will suggest you to solve as many question papers as you can...just to take your mind off the situations and...just to let the world know about how your parents raised this TOUGH person.
thnx all of u for ur moral support.definitely I will come back,fight back to normal stage n will move with u.when I m feeling low,m closing my eyes n try to connect with her.I m d proud son of my parents n I will do it.
Dear Sushanta, Sorry to hear that. I know its difficult time for you & no matter how much we feel for you, it will be you who will have to go through the pain. Have patience & faith on Almighty's decision. Look at the billions of people of this country, who are looking for you to rise against all the difficulties in life and lead them towards a healthy life. These are the people who want you to become an IAS. It is for them that you have to prepare for this exam & not only crack it but, become worthy of this responsibility during your whole career. Life doesn't stop after clearing IAS and nor will difficulties become easier after this. It is worth living only if it lets you fulfill the dreams of the down & dusted. Life is a process, and none can escape from its hardships. Everybody has to go through this. Be thankful to your parents that they made you capable enough to clear this exam. Now, its time to reach millions of poor, disadvantaged on the streets of this nation & make them capable of doing this. It is for them that you have to become an IAS because you know how painful it is. Rise against all odds in your life & have faith that you are going to make it. The only way to make your parents proud is to appear on 24th Aug. Fulfill their dreams, don't delay it. I wish God & luck be on your side on 24th Aug.
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Brother...i feel for u...its the hardest time of ur life...and the feeling is the worst anyone can have...
U can make ur parents ur strength...u know they will be watching u and wherever they are wouldnt they love to see their child achieve what he is destined too...
May god help u overcome this period of grief ..
I wish u the very best in ur future endeavors..
I may not feel what u are feeling right now. If you have dreamed of becoming an IAS for your parents and now they are not with you physically but they will be with in you always. Try to gain your inner strength and get back to your old confidence level and fullfill your parents's dream. Good luck buddy. May god bless you.
I'm not good with words, but I know a >:D< is what you need right now.
Love & prayers.
and I'd suggest u take the exam if u were preparing for it.
sorry for the irreparable loss
all the best
Now you should try even harder to make through this time. I dont know about your family and situations, but I will suggest you to solve as many question papers as you can...just to take your mind off the situations and...just to let the world know about how your parents raised this TOUGH person.
Best wishes for the exam.
Look at the billions of people of this country, who are looking for you to rise against all the difficulties in life and lead them towards a healthy life. These are the people who want you to become an IAS. It is for them that you have to prepare for this exam & not only crack it but, become worthy of this responsibility during your whole career. Life doesn't stop after clearing IAS and nor will difficulties become easier after this. It is worth living only if it lets you fulfill the dreams of the down & dusted. Life is a process, and none can escape from its hardships. Everybody has to go through this.
Be thankful to your parents that they made you capable enough to clear this exam. Now, its time to reach millions of poor, disadvantaged on the streets of this nation & make them capable of doing this. It is for them that you have to become an IAS because you know how painful it is.
Rise against all odds in your life & have faith that you are going to make it. The only way to make your parents proud is to appear on 24th Aug. Fulfill their dreams, don't delay it. I wish God & luck be on your side on 24th Aug.