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Dealing with Failure in the UPSC Civil Services Examination

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  • edited October 2015
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  • @Kira216 , aapne mujhe kisi thread mein 4-5 din pehle tag kiya tha. Kyon kiya? I am not able to see that post....
  • @all,
    I know it is insulting but please keep this thread alive till 2016, i have read only 10-20 comments but everytime i read failure stories i get recharged. I'm going for my 1st attempt in 2016.
    Don't want to be a member of this type of thread next year.
    All those who failed.." if u try then only you will have chances of success, if u don't, then you are already lost"
    So, MOUNT UP, AND LET'S DO IT AGAIN
  • @all,
    I know it is insulting but please keep this thread alive till 2016, i have read only 10-20 comments but everytime i read failure stories i get recharged. I'm going for my 1st attempt in 2016.
    Don't want to be a member of this type of thread next year.
    All those who failed.." if u try then only you will have chances of success, if u don't, then you are already lost"
    So, MOUNT UP, AND LET'S DO IT AGAIN
    कलेक्टर साहब नाकामयाब होकर इस थ्रेड का हिस्सा बनने की इच्छा तो हमारी भी नहीं थी। पर क्या किया जाये upsc हमारी मर्जी से नहीं चलता।पर ये बात किसी को पहले एटेम्पट में समझ में नहीं आती।
  • I failed in pre after 2 consecutive mains. it's not because I didn't work hard, rather I worked with lack of concentration!

    I was not happy, due to my abnormal faltmate! Ofcourse he was my colg senior,but I got to know the real things slowly!

    He was a womanizer( had multiple girls to satisfy his sexual hunger who visited him often) / alcoholic and over social creature( many friends and local acquaintances)! Literally he made his room in our 2 BHK a guesthouse ( on an avg every week one or more guests, his friends, relatives and girls( not gfs) visited, and more than 60-70 people visited in all total ) , every week more than once liquor party was organised!
    It means his room became a bar cum brothel cum guesthouse.

    These things indirectly lost my conc , so joined a lib studied there in day time!
    Slowly started to booze very often but alone,
    My smoking rate increased! I got admitted to hospital too for ill -health


    Today I don't know, but I feel I m not doing justice to me by wasting one precious year / time/ parents money! As he is still d same after his failure consecutively, day before yesterday he brought call girls and yesterday too, which forced me to leave and spend the night at a friend's place!

    Literally frnds don't u think, that ur ambience is of utmost importance for u?


    I think guys there is a difference b/ w happily preparing and just preparing! Till now I have not conveyed my failure to my parents!
    Father is diabetic with blood pressure problem! Mother is very sentimental!
    They will be broken!


    It was my story,And my failure is attributed to
    Following reasons

    bad ambience,( mahol)
    Galat Sangati/
    bad decision to choose a flat mate/
    Being a'' yes man '' to a senior wid lil fear

    I should learn to say NO at right time/ place/ for right reasons.

    Lastly all d best for SSC/ RBI/ APFC/ STATE PCS/ GATE!and other competitive exams too!
  • @insignia95 btw the buck stops at u
  • @insignia95 btw the buck stops at u
    How?
  • Bullshit!!!!! Kick your senior out. Are u his slave. You are wasting ur parents money. @insignia95
  • Bullshit!!!!! Kick your senior out. Are u his slave. You are wasting ur parents money. @insignia95 </blockquote

    Ya I wasted, that thing hurts me!
    Now I can reveal the truth abt prelims results after getting a job !
  • @insignia95 leave him , take some new room ur surrounding is d most important part of ur preparation wen i say most i mean it.

    fuck seniors , i didnt respect dem even in college tum to bahut door tak nibha rahe ho bhai , wake up bro be4 its too late
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