Dealing with Failure in the UPSC Civil Services Examination

mevhravi

my case(general candidate)
2010:1st attempt.out in prelims as weak in optional(geography) which was different from my background subject.
2011:2nd attempt.again out in prelims.new pre pattern with csat.
2012:3rd attempt.prepared csat like hell(non english,non hindi background,found comprehension part tough).cleared prelims but mains failed as underprepared in optionals(2 optional was in mains) due to utilisation of all enrgy in csat.
2013:4th attempt.prepared both optional very well.sudden notification of mains pattern change before 2 months,preparation/time wasted in one optional went vain.eventhough cleared prelims again failed in mains.
2014:5th attempt.cleared prelims as well as mains.in interview Diplomate Singh gave only 143,missed final by 33 marks.
2015:6th (final) attempt.again pre changed.expecting 103.33 minimum after considering all doubtful negative.but out. ultimately result:Babaji ka thullu.

almost the same things happened with me yaar

upsckashikar

my case(general candidate)
2010:1st attempt.out in prelims as weak in optional(geography) which was different from my background subject.
2011:2nd attempt.again out in prelims.new pre pattern with csat.
2012:3rd attempt.prepared csat like hell(non english,non hindi background,found comprehension part tough).cleared prelims but mains failed as underprepared in optionals(2 optional was in mains) due to utilisation of all enrgy in csat.
2013:4th attempt.prepared both optional very well.sudden notification of mains pattern change before 2 months,preparation/time wasted in one optional went vain.eventhough cleared prelims again failed in mains.
2014:5th attempt.cleared prelims as well as mains.in interview Diplomate Singh gave only 143,missed final by 33 marks.
2015:6th (final) attempt.again pre changed.expecting 103.33 minimum after considering all doubtful negative.but out. ultimately result:Babaji ka thullu.

almost the same things happened with me yaar

so waht r u doing now
job ???
did u prepare all this attempt sitting at home /delhi or while doing job

jonitdeta

my case(general candidate)
2010:1st attempt.out in prelims as weak in optional(geography) which was different from my background subject.
2011:2nd attempt.again out in prelims.new pre pattern with csat.
2012:3rd attempt.prepared csat like hell(non english,non hindi background,found comprehension part tough).cleared prelims but mains failed as underprepared in optionals(2 optional was in mains) due to utilisation of all enrgy in csat.
2013:4th attempt.prepared both optional very well.sudden notification of mains pattern change before 2 months,preparation/time wasted in one optional went vain.eventhough cleared prelims again failed in mains.
2014:5th attempt.cleared prelims as well as mains.in interview Diplomate Singh gave only 143,missed final by 33 marks.
2015:6th (final) attempt.again pre changed.expecting 103.33 minimum after considering all doubtful negative.but out. ultimately result:Babaji ka thullu.

almost the same things happened with me yaar

so waht r u doing now
job ???
did u prepare all this attempt sitting at home /delhi or while doing job

no bro,never been to coaching due to financial constraints.very poor family background with one mentally handicapped brother.all hope was on me.everything is lost bro.

COLD_TURKEY

anyone know how i can earn good enough in agriculture
as i will do my this attempt with some side income
i have some agriculture land in rajasthan if some one can guide me thanks
upsc ki wajeh se khetibadi karne ki naubat aagyi sala

haan.........ya to ARHAR ya phir PYAAJ bo do kheto main..........jab se achhe din aaye hai arhar ki daal 90 se 160 rs. or pyaaj 100 rs. tak bik jaati hai.......................

kikijiki

Woah... 2 days since the results are out and you are thinking of having a gf as a relief??? Hehehe... I dont think that when ppl say ''come on yaar... dont loose heart...find a gf... get a life"I dont think they are prescribing any medicines to get out of your despair... That sounds just like a cliche.. Still I hope some desperate (girl) soul might be in same situation as you are and might reciprocate your feelings...Still that is a long shot,I guess.
No hard feelings please. You should be spending time with your good friends for a while, then once things cool down, get back into the battle.. win the battle then think about a gf All the best

Kaash koi gf aajaye life mein..after recent debacle I feel low...is it good idea to do this? People say one should learn and explore new things in life..ofcourse continue preparing for upsc...batao aap log..banana chahiye gf? If yes, kaha sey shuru karu? It is not easy to have a gf, first a girl should like you. In my case, I think girls don't give a damn...lol...cuz I am so shy and don't speak much with anyone forget girls.

Bhai please read my previous posts..and my journey so far since 2012.

jonitdeta

my case(general candidate)
2010:1st attempt.out in prelims as weak in optional(geography) which was different from my background subject.
2011:2nd attempt.again out in prelims.new pre pattern with csat.
2012:3rd attempt.prepared csat like hell(non english,non hindi background,found comprehension part tough).cleared prelims but mains failed as underprepared in optionals(2 optional was in mains) due to utilisation of all enrgy in csat.
2013:4th attempt.prepared both optional very well.sudden notification of mains pattern change before 2 months,preparation/time wasted in one optional went vain.eventhough cleared prelims again failed in mains.
2014:5th attempt.cleared prelims as well as mains.in interview Diplomate Singh gave only 143,missed final by 33 marks.
2015:6th (final) attempt.again pre changed.expecting 103.33 minimum after considering all doubtful negative.but out. ultimately result:Babaji ka thullu.

almost the same things happened with me yaar

so waht r u doing now
job ???
did u prepare all this attempt sitting at home /delhi or while doing job

i do tution to manage my family somehow.no job.

COLD_TURKEY

my case(general candidate)
2010:1st attempt.out in prelims as weak in optional(geography) which was different from my background subject.
2011:2nd attempt.again out in prelims.new pre pattern with csat.
2012:3rd attempt.prepared csat like hell(non english,non hindi background,found comprehension part tough).cleared prelims but mains failed as underprepared in optionals(2 optional was in mains) due to utilisation of all enrgy in csat.
2013:4th attempt.prepared both optional very well.sudden notification of mains pattern change before 2 months,preparation/time wasted in one optional went vain.eventhough cleared prelims again failed in mains.
2014:5th attempt.cleared prelims as well as mains.in interview Diplomate Singh gave only 143,missed final by 33 marks.
2015:6th (final) attempt.again pre changed.expecting 103.33 minimum after considering all doubtful negative.but out. ultimately result:Babaji ka thullu.

almost the same things happened with me yaar

so waht r u doing now
job ???
did u prepare all this attempt sitting at home /delhi or while doing job

i do tution to manage my family somehow.no job.

sir, don't you have a professional degree so that you can back afresh in your respective field even with low salary?

kikijiki

I think failing in pre is a blessing in disguise, first 2 attempts mein pre pass kar ke mains ke liye fight maarta tha, fir mains ka baad 3 mahina backchodi till results, mains result ke baad fir dobara pre ki fight, now I have more than a year to plan my prep, abhi 3 mahine mein mains ki prep khatam karunga phir pre ki, by the time of next prelims I would have completed 3-4 revisions. I am finally in positive mood again >-

@tyrion_lanister same thing I used to do. But of course we have to make sure that we don't do any bakchodi for the next 3 months.

jonitdeta

my case(general candidate)
2010:1st attempt.out in prelims as weak in optional(geography) which was different from my background subject.
2011:2nd attempt.again out in prelims.new pre pattern with csat.
2012:3rd attempt.prepared csat like hell(non english,non hindi background,found comprehension part tough).cleared prelims but mains failed as underprepared in optionals(2 optional was in mains) due to utilisation of all enrgy in csat.
2013:4th attempt.prepared both optional very well.sudden notification of mains pattern change before 2 months,preparation/time wasted in one optional went vain.eventhough cleared prelims again failed in mains.
2014:5th attempt.cleared prelims as well as mains.in interview Diplomate Singh gave only 143,missed final by 33 marks.
2015:6th (final) attempt.again pre changed.expecting 103.33 minimum after considering all doubtful negative.but out. ultimately result:Babaji ka thullu.

almost the same things happened with me yaar

so waht r u doing now
job ???
did u prepare all this attempt sitting at home /delhi or while doing job

i do tution to manage my family somehow.no job.

sir, don't you have a professional degree so that you can back afresh in your respective field even with low salary?

no professional degree friend.humanity background.

Winnie_the_poo

@jonitdeta brother, u have bright future in cse coaching area. Its a booming business.