Guys,
How does one manage this type of a condition?
Alone, village, remote place with internet as the only solace. No friends, nothing, no GF. Studying alone, initially I was enthusiastic but slowly lost some of its pace. I have the resources, like The Hindu, books, Magazines (CSR, PD and Frontline). I thought about joining a coaching institute but due to some very personal reasons I couldn't. I want to crack it this year and I know I have been studying too. But this loneliness, it is unbearable sometimes.
Please do not take this as a random post or spam or something. I am seriously sad and getting depressed day by day. Here people don’t know about what I am doing, and all of my friends are married now. Added to my predicament, there come pains of self-discovery.
I know all of us would be feeling something like this on our journey but I would like to know, if anybody had a similar experience, how did you manage the stress?
Thank you all and all the best
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It may be of some help.
All the best.
i am also studying at home with not much social life but i think that it is perhaps a great plus point as i have nothing to distract me , i have started jogging since last month and i can say that everyday i feel my stamina increasing and that gives me a morale boost and nowadays i have started running fast too .
i am learning in a home where there's periodic quarrel and make myself clear that it is much annonying than my loneliness but what motivates me is that i get a lot to know about this world and most importantly about me . someone very well said that preparing for this exam is different to others because it's not preparation in real and a journey instead where you discover about yourself .
so believe me my friend and make friendship with yourself and try to enjoy the preparation .
@diplomatically27. Those People who thinks Upsc is testing ones knowledge only are wrong .Other than knowledge its the inner qualities of the person that is put to the "endurance test". Ultimately its the qualities like patience, courage and self belief that will lead you to the success. One can't succeed by merely reading few books. I believe there's an inner power that makes winners or losers.
be a man stand up
upsc dont bother about any of the guys who fails
so why torture ourselve with such depressing thought
wheather you will appear again or not but depression is surely the worst thing to let urself into .
one advice -
dont get emotional with anything except ur family or your loved ones- only they are the deserving ones.
your depression is only reflecting your greediness to achieve this even when your effort were not at right place
lol ......... i too failed .... but depressed not at all-- bas thoda gussa jaroor hai andar.
jyada dimaag kahrab mat karo
aur agar fir bhi pareshan ho to chaddar taan ke so jao mast
o->
Right now u might only internet and no friends no gf ...
after u clear the exam ur match will be made in mussorie...and ull get friends for a lifetime..
just think about that...ur partner and friends are waiting for u ....U Just have to reach to them...
Stop thinking about things which wont matter now....u can think all those things later...train ur mind to accept whatever is and not what cant be...
Study religiously and all the best..
culprit for that .
i think your statement is making the matter even more depressing
and who cares about them who cleared this exam
live your own life and love yourself the most
:-))
i wasnt talking about myself..i just quoted @diplomatically27 ...as he talked about his life in the beginning of the thread
just read my lines again...i was suggesting him a diff view to look at him prblms with the solution ...since he is living in a remote area without any friends...just internet..
usually main aisi situation me bahas karta tha ....par failure ne thoda humble to bana diya hai mujhe bhi