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Aaj kal to ban ka jamana hai . Ban laga do porn pe. Kuch dino baad chaku, rassi, kerosene sab pe bhi ban laga dena kyonki is sab se sucide ho sakta hai. Agar mann na bhare to ek floor se jyada ki building pe bhi ban laga dena kyonki koi building ke upar se kood sakta hai .
Ab saala yehi sab discuss karna reh gaya hai iss forum pe. Indian girls are generally prudish in nature. They don't talk about these things with their female friends. I fail to understand how on earth can a girl in india discuss such things with a guy. This thread seems to be made on mischievous grounds.
Anyways assuming that this guy is not lying, here's my take. The girl is quite foolish. She should talk about these things with her husband instead of some random friend , that too a male. The issue is quite normal. It's just a case of communication gap. Advice of divorce is completely wrong. Poor husband doesnot even know that his wife feels uncomfortable. Atleast he should be told n then if he truly loves his wife , he will mend his ways.
An advice to this nosy "friend". DONOT poke ur nose into personal matters of other people.
Aak kal log divorce pe toh itni jaldi utar aate hai ki jaise saala bazaar se kele khareed rahe ho aur chilka fek rahe ho. Husband has habit of pricking nose - Solution is DIVORCE. Husband has habit of snoring - Solution is DIVORCE. Husband has habit of farting - Solution is DIVORCE. Husband has habit of scratching his scrotum - Solution is DIVORCE. Hadd hai yaar. He cann't even make love with his wife.
off late many divorces happen in India because of such reasons...points out legal records and surveys....often the guys--hubbies are porn addict...and given their nature it is mostly bdsm....so they get aroused and find pleasure as a result of what the psychologists call "classic conditioning" whereby only the circumstances similar to the porn can result in sexual satisfaction of the individual....now that's all okay with males for they cannot do without it as a result of several years of such fantasies....in some cases this will be preferred by the partner...and in the second case is where the problem lies which is the majority of cases....this behaviour can be confused with cruelty and ill treatment if the receiving partner is not ready and seeking a soft treatment....again there arises problems of love vs lust....but people don't realize love is lust in disguise (at least i hold it that way).....also the porn watchers cannot expect similar satisfaction since porn movies are well orchestrated and the artists are experienced in such things.so reality cant offer the same thing and moreover they are western people...how could we expect the same in India?! . ..some remedies...
1.) the husband should start watching soft porn which is not cruel and dominating...and should have a liking towards softer methods.. or 2.) the partner could start watching rough forms of sex and explore the world of opportunities to seek pleasure both will take some time...off late bdsm and leather culture are gaining popularity around the world...so it will not be a huge problem to understand it....
p.s. views expressed are personal and i am firm believer in sex education which we lack in the name of culture bullshit which causes many lives to break....
Bacche, we r land of kamasutra, Lord Kaamdev, khajuraho n konark temple. Our culture is great n seeks divinity in love making. It's conservatism of neo-victorian era which has made us inward looking. Check your facts before besmirching our culture. I raise my middle finger to moral policing but u just cann't abuse our great culture in name of appearing progressive.
Aaj kal to ban ka jamana hai . Ban laga do porn pe. Kuch dino baad chaku, rassi, kerosene sab pe bhi ban laga dena kyonki is sab se sucide ho sakta hai. Agar mann na bhare to ek floor se jyada ki building pe bhi ban laga dena kyonki koi building ke upar se kood sakta hai .
@Chalu_aunty by culture i meant the hypocritic life we live today.......i am attacking the conservative and non liberal stance we have in India...with several taboos....culture in the context i referred to is a way of life as far as sexual frustrations are concerned...
Chalu_aunty by culture i meant the hypocritic life we live today.......i am attacking the conservative and non liberal stance we have in India...with several taboos....culture in the context i referred to is a way of life as far as sexual frustrations are concerned...
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Anyways assuming that this guy is not lying, here's my take. The girl is quite foolish. She should talk about these things with her husband instead of some random friend , that too a male. The issue is quite normal. It's just a case of communication gap. Advice of divorce is completely wrong. Poor husband doesnot even know that his wife feels uncomfortable. Atleast he should be told n then if he truly loves his wife , he will mend his ways.
An advice to this nosy "friend". DONOT poke ur nose into personal matters of other people.
Aak kal log divorce pe toh itni jaldi utar aate hai ki jaise saala bazaar se kele khareed rahe ho aur chilka fek rahe ho. Husband has habit of pricking nose - Solution is DIVORCE.
Husband has habit of snoring - Solution is DIVORCE.
Husband has habit of farting - Solution is DIVORCE.
Husband has habit of scratching his scrotum - Solution is DIVORCE. Hadd hai yaar. He cann't even make love with his wife.
sabse imp "consent"hai...ab ye manufactured consent to nahi ye to uss ladki ko decide karna hoga...society ya uske friend ko nahi...
Everybody has fantasies.. Key is to regulate them..