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Dealing with Failure in the UPSC Civil Services Examination

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  • in last few days with everyday in life i hit a new low, when will it end i don't know will it end ever i don't know all i know is that i will not give up. i will fight till there is a single breath in me, that's all i can do. in these tough time my will is my shield and my courage is my sword.
    its tough time for all of us but hang on buddy hang on. don't loose hope.
  • Life us so much messed up
  • 2013 ka 65th ranker Roshan kushwaha was a school mate. He flunked out of interview stage twice and came back in style in 2013. If he can, then I too can.
  • Are kya upsc pe inzaam lga rhe ho , sala seena thok k fir baitho padhne wrna itne qualified log ho , tumhe kis cheez ki kami . Scientist ban skte ho , entrepreneurs ban skte ho, tum jaiso ki vajah se ye desh aur pura USA chalta h .
    IIT, iim e walo se kitni umeed h is desh ko , tum b aise kroge to baki kidhr jaenge , tumhare naam ka to dunnka pure world me bajjta h !!!
    Ya to tayari chodh k koi kaam dhndha suru krlo , wrna ias ka kida h to waps lg jao mere shero kyuki "haar k baithna hamari khidmat me nhi h " .
    :D
  • Hey guys don't give up plz...
    What if you were turned 27plus..30plus??unemployed??
    1000 times yes!!remember??ya bulb wale baba??nobody failed today..only your life given another chance to improve yourself.Don't you think so??Really??
    Sirf ek chance sabkuch bhulkar khud KO yaad kro..lag jaao...paa jaoge madhusala..
    Don't give up#believe in yourself.nope am not saying but every successful aspirant frequently said those magical lines..
    Google for interview's given by any successful candidate and you will find yourself Ki wo v ek din whi the jha aaj tum ho...lecture nhi hai doston ye real hai...believe not me but yourself
  • My profile

    2011-2013 work in IT
    2013-2015 Oct no work

    UPSC 3 attempts - prelim level (2 attempts without prep lol, 110 this yr expectation, didn't clear)

    SBI 2 attempts - prelim level (1 yr DI too tough, 2nd yr again high competition)
    IBPS 2 attempts - prelim level (missed narrowly last yr prelim, waiting for this year result)
    SSC 1 attempt - prelim level

    other than UPSC, other exams prep only 7 days before exam, so this was expected.
    But this yr I was hoping to clear UPSC prelims.

    I am going to think about my options now. Did I do a big mistake leaving my strong area in ECE engineering for want of Administrative service?
    No this was never a mistake. It's our dream if we would not have come for it we would have regretted it whole life.. But we are not achieving it either with lots of hard work.. at the same time do not get other job because we focus completely on UPSC and treat other exam like cakewalk. lets focus on those job.

    i would say put upsc on hold till you get a govt job which would give ample time to prepare for upsc again.. as you too have reached 26 only and 3 attempt left(1 more than me).. At max it would let us skip 2016.. but again after that come in this game with cool mind.

  • edited October 2015
    Writing this exam since 2011...wrote 2 consecutive mains....failed next 2 prelims...this year was in....left a lucrative job and a dream opportunity to higher studies ( if u guys know daad scholarship in Germany).... Had a turning point (love life) where i went against my family and I thought leaving full fledged studies and give tutions but my family supported me....thanks to them.....but I was prepared since then....ppl started doubting and pouring sympathies as if I can't do it...may b I still can't but I never needed their superficial sympathies....I cleared pre this time with a job n very less time to study....may b I won't clear mains or won't be able to make to final list.... But friends remember one thing, this is just an exam....100s of ppl become ias and similar number is and other services... Only few actually gain respect or r even contented with their lives...at the end of the day u shud have that feeling even when u fail..baaki duniya to bakwaas karegi aur wo aapke ias,ips ke baad bhi karegi...just b truthful to urself.... Civils is not the end of it dream leave alone ur life....atb for ur future endeavors even if that is not civils...atb...musa bhai ka Hi example dekh lo....I truely appreciate his endeavors.... Atb
    ...I too have been there n played the gamble many times...I can feel what u r right now
  • meri halat gambhir ho gai hai......saala college ke baad seedhe tyari mein 2 saal marvai....output zero ....private m ab koi 20 hazar ki job bhi ni dega n government m lg ni raha ki agle ek saal tk kahin hoga.....saare effort upsc m hi laga die the.....!!!...i was getting 108+ from vaji. but in assholes ki key bhi bekar thi .Feeling fucked....cursing the day when i decided to prepare for this exam..... aim of the life was to serve nation,help poor n women empowerment that's why i decided..but ab to apne survival k lalle pad gae hai.Girlfriend ne chod dia....fb band kr di coz friends ghumne ki pics daalte hai,bars ki,class k lulu bacche bhi foreign m job karr rahe hai....whatsapp pr do do din tak kisi k msg ni aate......100 ruppe ka balane mahine bhar chal jata hai....this shows my social life....ghrwalo k paisso pr parasite feel karta hun.....n worst part is this wo mujhe ab bhi support kar rahe hai....ki koi baat nahi......baap achi post pr hai to rishtetdaar daang marke rakhte hai expectation se...choti moti job bhi ni kar sakta..... !!
    Kya karun mera ab to humanity se wishwas hi uth gaya.....jo log selfish the, they are happy....enjoying there life with every sensual pleasure.....they never bother about country n parents ...emotionless n they are happy....n look at me i tried to fulfill my parents dream i m suffering... :((
  • aaj ki shaam badi bojhil hai..
  • aaj ki shaam badi bojhil hai..
    bahut saare purane khiladi udd gye, maine suna marv hartington ka bhi nahi hua?
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