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From last few days, in coaching class I am getting attracted towards a girl....we will chat together, we will go for the chai after the class , we will exchange notes and consequently will talk along....Deep down, I know that it will be a catastrophe for me, given cut throat competition in this field but still I am not able to help me out. What should be my course of action from here on. please help me out. Also, please provide general points for avoiding attraction towards opposite sex at this age. Thanks in advance.
Bro if u getting serious about her then you need to maintain distance ....start avoiding .....and if feelings are mere infatuatiom then enjoy give daily 30-40 mins to her it will be more of stress buster ....most of the girls do same with us ....
From last few days, in coaching class I am getting attracted towards a girl....we will chat together, we will go for the chai after the class , we will exchange notes and consequently will talk along....Deep down, I know that it will be a catastrophe for me, given cut throat competition in this field but still I am not able to help me out. What should be my course of action from here on. please help me out. Also, please provide general points for avoiding attraction towards opposite sex at this age. Thanks in advance.
Get attracted if you are getting attracted. There are many examples of people in relationship and even marriage, topping the civil services exam.
But if your choice is shitty or you are too much pulled towards by someone by superficial features (should not happen if you are over 24-25, generally), then avoid the person completely.
We are nothing but made of hormones and neurons. Balancing them is the key to everything. Learn to differentiate healthy food and Protein from calories and junk food. Good luck.
From last few days, in coaching class I am getting attracted towards a girl....we will chat together, we will go for the chai after the class , we will exchange notes and consequently will talk along....Deep down, I know that it will be a catastrophe for me, given cut throat competition in this field but still I am not able to help me out. What should be my course of action from here on. please help me out. Also, please provide general points for avoiding attraction towards opposite sex at this age. Thanks in advance.
Get attracted if you are getting attracted. There are many examples of people in relationship and even marriage, topping the civil services exam.
But if your choice is shitty or you are too much pulled towards by someone by superficial features (should not happen if you are over 24-25, generally), then avoid the person completely.
We are nothing but made of hormones and neurons. Balancing them is the key to everything. Learn to differentiate healthy food and Protein from calories and junk food. Good luck.
Bhai .. a simple piece of advise from my side also
Just go far far away from her , which I believe you can’t do as you two are in same coaching. Then make her your sister ( this option is hilarious though ) But These two things you have already been advised . My point is Serenity takes back stage when budding love enters . So there is no point in struggling to control your feeling while being with her . So better be away , far far away
Sar pe ustra lagwa le aur usse direct kehde ki you want to have coitus/one night stand/FWB relationship with her.
Sister wali advice toh ghatiya hai ekdum, PTA nhi log ajkal words ki value kyu nhi samjhte..... you're having an infatuation usko sister kbhi mat bolna.
Sar pe ustra lagwa le aur usse direct kehde ki you want to have coitus/one night stand/FWB relationship with her. Sister wali advice toh ghatiya hai ekdum, PTA nhi log ajkal words ki value kyu nhi samjhte..... you're having an infatuation usko sister kbhi mat bolna.
Sar pe ustra lagwa le aur usse direct kehde ki you want to have coitus/one night stand/FWB relationship with her.
Sister wali advice toh ghatiya hai ekdum, PTA nhi log ajkal words ki value kyu nhi samjhte..... you're having an infatuation usko sister kbhi mat bolna.
Sar pe ustra lagwa le aur usse direct kehde ki you want to have coitus/one night stand/FWB relationship with her. Sister wali advice toh ghatiya hai ekdum, PTA nhi log ajkal words ki value kyu nhi samjhte..... you're having an infatuation usko sister kbhi mat bolna.
That's all, she'll never speak to you again .
Agree
I know that advise is wierd but it works for the cases where there is attraction towards opposite sex but for some reason you don't want to get into relationship and you are not actually into the relationship.
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I just knew it , you will come up with out of the box idea
Just go far far away from her , which I believe you can’t do as you two are in same coaching.
Then make her your sister ( this option is hilarious though
But These two things you have already been advised . My point is
Serenity takes back stage when budding love enters . So there is no point in struggling to control your feeling while being with her . So better be away , far far away
Sister wali advice toh ghatiya hai ekdum, PTA nhi log ajkal words ki value kyu nhi samjhte..... you're having an infatuation usko sister kbhi mat bolna.
That's all, she'll never speak to you again .