How to avoid attraction towards opposite sex?

iasinwaitng

From last few days, in coaching class I am getting attracted towards a girl....we will chat together, we will go for the chai after the class , we will exchange notes and consequently will talk along....Deep down, I know that it will be a catastrophe for me, given cut throat competition in this field but still I am not able to help me out. What should be my course of action from here on. please help me out. Also, please provide general points for avoiding attraction towards opposite sex at this age. Thanks in advance.

TulsidasKhan

Kaat do.

Sappling

Bhai in next class itself call her "sister....u r really helpful..." Sab khatm instantly.
Nd for future always prevention is better than cure......just avoid the girls....dont feel hesitate to sideline nd ignore.....its mine rest ur

iasinwaitng

Bhai in next class itself call her "sister....u r really helpful..." Sab khatm instantly.
Nd for future always prevention is better than cure......just avoid the girls....dont feel hesitate to sideline nd ignore.....its mine rest ur

thanks

Dead Man

Make her your sister or tell her indirectly that you see her as your best friend (or sister). It will be difficult for you initially but in the due course of time you will get your attention back to productive activities. My roommate (in ORN) was in similar situation and when girl was about to propose him on one day (first of all he was very nervous and didn't want to get into relationship but was equally attracted to that girl) he suddenly told her he see her as his sister and bang on she suddenly snapped all ties with him (though they talk to each other but it's not like what was earlier). Analyse your situation and see whether she is also interested in you or not. It might be that she's just being friendly and don't see you as someone more than a bf. Alternatively you can gradually start distancing your self from her like sitting somewhere else or find some male friend and start sitting next to him and if possible after class walk to home with your friend. Block fb, WhatsApp, telegram, Instagram on your phone as well as your PC (don't block her) so that you can divert yourself to study.

iasinwaitng

Make her your sister or tell her indirectly that you see her as your best friend (or sister). It will be difficult for you initially but in the due course of time you will get your attention back to productive activities. My roommate (in ORN) was in similar situation and when girl was about to propose him on one day (first of all he was very nervous and didn't want to get into relationship but was equally attracted to that girl) he suddenly told her he see her as his sister and bang on she suddenly snapped all ties with him (though they talk to each other but it's not like what was earlier). Analyse your situation and see whether she is also interested in you or not. It might be that she's just being friendly and don't see you as someone more than a bf. Alternatively you can gradually start distancing your self from her like sitting somewhere else or find some male friend and start sitting next to him and if possible after class walk to home with your friend. Block fb, WhatsApp, telegram, Instagram on your phone as well as your PC (don't block her) so that you can divert yourself to study.

my situation is exactly like your friend's situation, where I like her but don't want to get into the relationship... your reply is really helpful....thank you very much

NewArrival

Try getting attracted towards same sex.

The_Invisible_Guest

Try getting attracted towards same sex.

Masterpiece ;-)

delhimumbai

From last few days, in coaching class I am getting attracted towards a girl....we will chat together, we will go for the chai after the class , we will exchange notes and consequently will talk along....Deep down, I know that it will be a catastrophe for me, given cut throat competition in this field but still I am not able to help me out. What should be my course of action from here on. please help me out. Also, please provide general points for avoiding attraction towards opposite sex at this age. Thanks in advance.

Get attracted if you are getting attracted. There are many examples of people in relationship and even marriage, topping the civil services exam.

But if your choice is shitty or you are too much pulled towards by someone by superficial features (should not happen if you are over 24-25, generally), then avoid the person completely.

We are nothing but made of hormones and neurons. Balancing them is the key to everything. Learn to differentiate healthy food and Protein from calories and junk food. Good luck.

iasinwaitng

From last few days, in coaching class I am getting attracted towards a girl....we will chat together, we will go for the chai after the class , we will exchange notes and consequently will talk along....Deep down, I know that it will be a catastrophe for me, given cut throat competition in this field but still I am not able to help me out. What should be my course of action from here on. please help me out. Also, please provide general points for avoiding attraction towards opposite sex at this age. Thanks in advance.

Get attracted if you are getting attracted. There are many examples of people in relationship and even marriage, topping the civil services exam.

But if your choice is shitty or you are too much pulled towards by someone by superficial features (should not happen if you are over 24-25, generally), then avoid the person completely.

We are nothing but made of hormones and neurons. Balancing them is the key to everything. Learn to differentiate healthy food and Protein from calories and junk food. Good luck.

thank you very much

zohanmukharjee

From last few days, in coaching class I am getting attracted towards a girl....we will chat together, we will go for the chai after the class , we will exchange notes and consequently will talk along....Deep down, I know that it will be a catastrophe for me, given cut throat competition in this field but still I am not able to help me out. What should be my course of action from here on. please help me out. Also, please provide general points for avoiding attraction towards opposite sex at this age. Thanks in advance.

Get attracted if you are getting attracted. There are many examples of people in relationship and even marriage, topping the civil services exam.

But if your choice is shitty or you are too much pulled towards by someone by superficial features (should not happen if you are over 24-25, generally), then avoid the person completely.

We are nothing but made of hormones and neurons. Balancing them is the key to everything. Learn to differentiate healthy food and Protein from calories and junk food. Good luck.

very bad advise