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Failed in UPSC 3 times. Wrote 1 mains. Failed in RBI,BPSC. Feeling dejected,rejected and soiled.

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  • This is the lowest point in life. I lost my confidence, self-respect and also about to loose the person dearest to me. Don't know how to standup from here and move forward...
    Bass itne mein hi haar mann gye.. ?? In raston se hazaro fail hue log aage badhkar success paye hai... utho.. aur chalo.. chalte raho jab tak successful na hojao.. aapse jyada thake hue logon ne karke dekhaya.. toh aap kyun nahi..!! Hosala rakho dost, kathinaiyon ka rasta aksar thaka deti hai logon ko, lekin jeetate wahi hai jo khade hokar aage badhte..

    It Isn't about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward - rocky
    Yaar .. try karna to nhi chod sakta.. that's the only logical way to rectify past mistakes. But feeling low and depressed.
    Bro.. exam se dil lagao, result se dil mat lagao.. this is what i have learnt in this process.. mehnat karke faad do exam tak.. uske baad be cool.. if this exam won't teach you to be cool and handle presure.. nothing can.. learn to handle pressure.. lakhon log kar rhe hai yaar.. ek baar ORN aur patel nagar mein Ghumke dekho.. you need to learn that..!!

    Be in present.. feeling low and depressed wahi ho sakte hai jo past mein rehta hai aur jinke dimag mein future ki uncertainty ghumti hai.. present mein rehna sikho.. everything will be awesome... In the panic situation do not hit panic button of your mind, just have patience and be cool. You will be awesome.

    +1
    Play some sports, listen loud music.
    Go on date with urself along with a good book (power of subconscious mind types) spend some hours there.
    Write diary.
    Become fit.
    Meet strangers in cafeterias have good conversation talk wid old people in parks.
    Find real you all what I mean
  • Tab toh Abhi aapne kuch nahi dekha @aks1911 Miyan. Aise hi himmat chhod doge kya?
  • edited September 2018
    This is the lowest point in life. I lost my confidence, self-respect and also about to loose the person dearest to me. Don't know how to standup from here and move forward...
    Parent?
    Not parents... Gf. I can't blame her.. it's all my fault.last yr wrote mains.. but this year failed in pre of UPSC,RBI and now BPSC. No one can wait for infinite times specially when nothing seems to go right.
  • bhai, i donnt what to > how to console u. or what quote or motivation i had at my disposal to suggest u. but i believe im one of many forgetful or unpleasantful souls wandered in really really shit kind of moment i faced so far. never clear prelims so far in 3 consecutive attempts. , infact i never had good environment nor either i get parental support or any kins but all consistently blamed me i cant qualify upsc even in next 100 years. this was consistently spit by my mom due to i got average academic background. despite of this now im doing teaching job to support my finances for my illogical preparation. neither i get credit of my work nor my boss allowed me to prepare cse. instead stress me to do back end stuff of state psc exam daily current affairs materials , also monthly magaines . but in this work also i wasnt allowed to teach my own stuff materials that i make everyday but some other faculty absurdly teach my own stuff materials of magazines n took ful credit in front of students. u wont believe me, i even didnt have leave for my present job, nor i get respected in front of students ,but everyone treat me an slavery kind of shit all the time. u wont believe now at the moment , while working exhaustively in institute , i find time to post my pathetic kind of life n working nature all to ensure just hardly very mediocre kind of sum of 10k salary that too i never got credited at right time every month. u wont believe im just started 30 n lives more than slavery kind of hell life with losing all throughout my past 6 years ..but to end of all, my mind continuously , push me harder , my heart beats up like lightning bolt all the time to determined to find time n keep moving to mastering my optional before december n try to find out to ensure atleast 5 answers practise per day of my optionals n regular test per weeek now
  • Now is the best time for you to take RISK. Over 90% most successful people that u see today passed through their lowest point at some point of time. Venture the longest jump u can at this point of time. If u succeed u will be an inspiration for many, if u fail....prepare yourself for another mission.....never bother about relationship ...... Even the most perfect relationship does not last for ever....hardly 40-50 ,years (minuscule in comparison to the age of the earth) Discover your purpose of life from your inner self....stop imitating the rat race that your friends, brothers, cousins are running .... Do what your heart actually wants......At last read and learn by heart the autobiographies of Gandhi, Warren Buffet, Steve Job, Napoleon, Nehru, Jack Ma, Abdul Kalam and many others and try to balance your studies with hobbies.
  • edited September 2018
    Chalo ye padh lo @aks1911 , kuch motivated feel karo toh batana. Nahi huwe toh kuch aur try karenge.

    http://discuss.forumias.com/discussion/comment/1167557/#Comment_1167557
  • edited September 2018
    Chalo ye padh lo @aks1911 , kuch motivated feel karo toh batana. Nahi huwe toh kuch aur try karenge.

    http://discuss.forumias.com/discussion/comment/1167557/#Comment_1167557
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    May the best of ur dreams and desires come true sir..!!
    U will convert lined up exams for sure!
    Heartiest wishes. :)

  • edited September 2018
    @aks1911 situation aj bhi meri same hi hai. Nothing has changed from what I mentioned, except that UPSC attempts are over. Bas Apne ander selection ki Aag jalaye rakho. Baki sab bhool pao shayad!!!
  • Chalo ye padh lo @aks1911 , kuch motivated feel karo toh batana. Nahi huwe toh kuch aur try karenge.

    http://discuss.forumias.com/discussion/comment/1167557/#Comment_1167557
    I am at loss for words here.
    My best wishes to you sir.
  • Chalo ye padh lo @aks1911 , kuch motivated feel karo toh batana. Nahi huwe toh kuch aur try karenge.

    http://discuss.forumias.com/discussion/comment/1167557/#Comment_1167557
    I sincerely hope you get through in whatever exam you're looking upto.
    All the best
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