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Himesh1

I'm clearing the air what exactly happened.

Yesterday a friend came to meet me in the evening. He had my phone, and he was looking at some old pics. His id was @Himesh . And he was chatting on forumIAS with a girl @Bawri e hindustan . She gave him her telegram id. He didn't have telegram, and he messaged her from my account that "I'm that Shayar." And he told me I'm chatting with her from your account.

I immediately snatched my phone and deleted the message. @Bawri e hindustan had replied "Ok". I blocked her, and asked my friend to chat with her with his own account instead. He installed telegram, and started chatting with her. I've no idea what they chatted, and I didn't ask him either, as it was not my business.

So this is what I'm aware of. My friend sent her " I'm that shayar." Did my friend harass her by this one comment, I don't know. I leave it to you guys to decide.

Now when they chatted, @Bawri e hindustan asked my friend who was gaurav vats. He said he didn't know, and why he said this he only knows. I'll ask him to come here and clear.

Now, @Bawri e hindustan thought someone had hacked their inbox and got her id. She called me a chhuha, kutta and bhadwa. Look at her comments on page 230. She decided to hurl abuses on me, and made allegations. She shared the screenshot, and made my id public. All this when she was talking about the right to privacy of a girl.

So guys and girls, this is the legal issue involved. Did my friend harass her by a single message "I'm the shayar", it's upto you to decide.

And now coming on the ego tussle. She said she'll make my home kabristan, and my family will suffer, "legally". And on this aspect, I challenged her to go ahead. I stand by every word I said. EVERY SINGLE WORD.

I request @Neyawn @root and other @mods like @DrKingSchultz and @Aks to kindly look into this matter. And I'm willing to cooperate in every possible way. Just because someone is a girl, it doesn't give her the right to make unsubstantiated allegations on anyone.

And I would request my friend to come on forum to clear the air as well. Do one thing, file a case, and match the ip address of @Himesh , the new account he'll make, the telegram account of him he chatted with later with @Bawri e hindustan .

And to all the forumites, just because it's a girl vs guy case, kindly don't jump to conclusions. Go through the matter once, and then decide. And still if you think I've a legal case against me, you're most welcome to support her. I've nothing personal with anyone except @Bawri e hindustan , and I won't judge you for your opinions.

+1000

Similar shit has happened with me also. Nobody talks about abusive women. Just because he is a male he must be guilty...

People have passed judgement without even ascertaining the facts of the matter and even blamed upsc for selecting a "wrong" candidate.

Inki sunta kaun h yaar? These ppl waste a lot of time here and then complain the process and procedure

And they are blind by one eye, they just want a chance of getting into the matter which is related to a female

And then perform their other ulterior motives you know what, these liquors want only lick

Chahe kisi ki bhi chatni pade, turant down their knees

VA Kumar

I'm clearing the air what exactly happened.

Yesterday a friend came to meet me in the evening. He had my phone, and he was looking at some old pics. His id was @Himesh . And he was chatting on forumIAS with a girl @Bawri e hindustan . She gave him her telegram id. He didn't have telegram, and he messaged her from my account that "I'm that Shayar." And he told me I'm chatting with her from your account.

I immediately snatched my phone and deleted the message. @Bawri e hindustan had replied "Ok". I blocked her, and asked my friend to chat with her with his own account instead. He installed telegram, and started chatting with her. I've no idea what they chatted, and I didn't ask him either, as it was not my business.

So this is what I'm aware of. My friend sent her " I'm that shayar." Did my friend harass her by this one comment, I don't know. I leave it to you guys to decide.

Now when they chatted, @Bawri e hindustan asked my friend who was gaurav vats. He said he didn't know, and why he said this he only knows. I'll ask him to come here and clear.

Now, @Bawri e hindustan thought someone had hacked their inbox and got her id. She called me a chhuha, kutta and bhadwa. Look at her comments on page 230. She decided to hurl abuses on me, and made allegations. She shared the screenshot, and made my id public. All this when she was talking about the right to privacy of a girl.

So guys and girls, this is the legal issue involved. Did my friend harass her by a single message "I'm the shayar", it's upto you to decide.

And now coming on the ego tussle. She said she'll make my home kabristan, and my family will suffer, "legally". And on this aspect, I challenged her to go ahead. I stand by every word I said. EVERY SINGLE WORD.

I request @Neyawn @root and other @mods like @DrKingSchultz and @Aks to kindly look into this matter. And I'm willing to cooperate in every possible way. Just because someone is a girl, it doesn't give her the right to make unsubstantiated allegations on anyone.

And I would request my friend to come on forum to clear the air as well. Do one thing, file a case, and match the ip address of @Himesh , the new account he'll make, the telegram account of him he chatted with later with @Bawri e hindustan .

And to all the forumites, just because it's a girl vs guy case, kindly don't jump to conclusions. Go through the matter once, and then decide. And still if you think I've a legal case against me, you're most welcome to support her. I've nothing personal with anyone except @Bawri e hindustan , and I won't judge you for your opinions.

+1000

Similar shit has happened with me also. Nobody talks about abusive women. Just because he is a male he must be guilty...

People have passed judgement without even ascertaining the facts of the matter and even blamed upsc for selecting a "wrong" candidate.

I request UPSC to create a panel from forumites to distribute the certificates to candidates to be recruited. Just to ensure that the "flawed" system can become able to filterout the candidates whom the Panel finds unfit to be IAS.
PS- Bhai ek certificate humko bhi...I have put forward your intelligent filtering out capacity.

@Chai_pilo I propose your name as a member of the Panel to be formed.

Felipé

I'm clearing the air what exactly happened.

Yesterday a friend came to meet me in the evening. He had my phone, and he was looking at some old pics. His id was @Himesh . And he was chatting on forumIAS with a girl @Bawri e hindustan . She gave him her telegram id. He didn't have telegram, and he messaged her from my account that "I'm that Shayar." And he told me I'm chatting with her from your account.

I immediately snatched my phone and deleted the message. @Bawri e hindustan had replied "Ok". I blocked her, and asked my friend to chat with her with his own account instead. He installed telegram, and started chatting with her. I've no idea what they chatted, and I didn't ask him either, as it was not my business.

So this is what I'm aware of. My friend sent her " I'm that shayar." Did my friend harass her by this one comment, I don't know. I leave it to you guys to decide.

Now when they chatted, @Bawri e hindustan asked my friend who was gaurav vats. He said he didn't know, and why he said this he only knows. I'll ask him to come here and clear.

Now, @Bawri e hindustan thought someone had hacked their inbox and got her id. She called me a chhuha, kutta and bhadwa. Look at her comments on page 230. She decided to hurl abuses on me, and made allegations. She shared the screenshot, and made my id public. All this when she was talking about the right to privacy of a girl.

So guys and girls, this is the legal issue involved. Did my friend harass her by a single message "I'm the shayar", it's upto you to decide.

And now coming on the ego tussle. She said she'll make my home kabristan, and my family will suffer, "legally". And on this aspect, I challenged her to go ahead. I stand by every word I said. EVERY SINGLE WORD.

I request @Neyawn @root and other @mods like @DrKingSchultz and @Aks to kindly look into this matter. And I'm willing to cooperate in every possible way. Just because someone is a girl, it doesn't give her the right to make unsubstantiated allegations on anyone.

And I would request my friend to come on forum to clear the air as well. Do one thing, file a case, and match the ip address of @Himesh , the new account he'll make, the telegram account of him he chatted with later with @Bawri e hindustan .

And to all the forumites, just because it's a girl vs guy case, kindly don't jump to conclusions. Go through the matter once, and then decide. And still if you think I've a legal case against me, you're most welcome to support her. I've nothing personal with anyone except @Bawri e hindustan , and I won't judge you for your opinions.

+1000

Similar shit has happened with me also. Nobody talks about abusive women. Just because he is a male he must be guilty...

People have passed judgement without even ascertaining the facts of the matter and even blamed upsc for selecting a "wrong" candidate.

Lol. Hold your breath babaji. Notice the people who are passing judgement. They must be having their own agendas. A lot of us are frustrated here. And a tank holder's apparent mistake is trigger enough to unleash all those frustrations. Ignore Karo and enjoy this,

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doreamon

Mujhe kuch samjh main nehi ayaa ... bawri ko kyun laga uska id hack ho gaya hai.... forum id main aisa kya raaj tha?? Facebook id ho to koi baat hai ?? Main hi hun woo shayar koi secret code hai kya? Kuch samajh main nehi aa raha bc.....

It ain't me

Bakarstuds. Leave the matter to those involved, they can do it themselves, rather than our passing judgemental remarks knowing nothing about the story. Meanwhile lets do RED HOT BAKAR.BAKAAAAAAAR

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domino

Bakarstuds. Leave the matter to those involved, they can do it themselves, rather than our passing judgemental remarks knowing nothing about the story. Meanwhile lets do RED HOT BAKAR.BAKAAAAAAAR

+1, grab ur popcorn n just watch...let the stakeholders sort it out.

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RxIAS

This whole shitstorms going over my head. Sorry brethren. Bakar serious ho gaya. But I just have one hope, peacefully mita lena jo bhi ho. Main nikalta hu.

This is hearing for a legal course now. I am sure the girl will initiate action. And this guy's friends at cyber cell and crime branch would be first ones to bring him down. If he gets involved into criminal case during probation period, the appointment is cancelled without intimation..

Ek seat vacant karaane ki conspiracy kar rahe ho.
PS- Inbox me I LOVE YOU nhi aata #Experience

I am just saying what the Rules of All India Services and Central Services are. I am in govt service since 4 yrs now and we deal with such cases. Last year ek UPSC through aaye doctor ko terminate kar diya after the girl filed criminal case of sexual harassment. Woh bhi probation mein tha.
Trust me, if that girl comes to utilise the law, this guy will never find his name in any rank list ever. Usne gaali diya yahan forum pe is her reaction, the court looks into the reason for that. Baaki aap kuch bhi bol sakte ho for argument sake.
That freedom of expression aapko bhi utna hi hai jitna mujhe, uss ladke aur uss ladki ko.
@admin @ForumIAS @Neyawn will decide what to do with their case as far as as Forum is concerned.