37 days left for mains. What to do? Anxiety not letting me study.

badman

Guys

Just 40 days left and not even 1/3rd of syllabus is completed...what should i do now...moreover with each passing day anxiety not letting me to study as much...wasted much time after prelims though i was sure to get through....and now when i look at the amount that i have to study i feel disheartened....feels like people must have studied rigorously after pre and i wasted my time thinking negatively and by anxiety...there was enough time after pre but i thot that time that time is very less....and right from then anxiety crept in...n now time is really very very less...i am from a rural background...dont have much financial security so if i do not succeed in this attempt...god knows only what will happen...everyone in my family expects me to become IAS this time...burden of expectations too high ...i think what if i dont?

Can i still make it...if i study very hard from now...I AM LIVING in FEAR..god save me

Vikooo

Sab ka yehi haal hai bhai.You are not alone.

badman

Sab ka yehi haal hai bhai.You are not alone.

unfortunately..this is my last attempt...sabka haal ye nahi h

Vikooo

Sab ka yehi haal hai bhai.You are not alone.

unfortunately..this is my last attempt...sabka haal ye nahi h

How come this is your last year,Goi ne 2 more attempt diye hai na.

Or is this your 6th attempt?

Etat

Equally frustrated with the syllabus but have to set it aside and get on with it. Whatever you do helps.

badman

Sab ka yehi haal hai bhai.You are not alone.

unfortunately..this is my last attempt...sabka haal ye nahi h

How come this is your last year,Goi ne 2 more attempt diye hai na.

Or is this your 6th attempt?

Its like this... my date of birth is 3rd march 1983...so if i do not make it this time i wont be able to give next attempt since cutoff date is 1st august...also i did not appear in 2011 exam since i was not preparing that time therefore new attempt that will be given to 2011 appeared people is not available for me...i appeared in 2012 and wrote mains but could not qualify....2013 me overage ho gya...!! understood?

Confused_soul

@badman : it may look weird and impossible but you still have some 40-41days left. Try to give 14 hours a day and the game can be still yours.

badman

@badman : it may look weird and impossible but you still have some 40-41days left. Try to give 14 hours a day and the game can be still yours.

that is exactly what i want to know....if i study like 16 hours from now ...can i still make it...i think ki everyone must be studying that much so even if i study that much how much advantage can i gain since i hv nt studied much in last 2-3 months....

Honestly speaking i am HUGELY burdened by the expectations people around me have...also i do not have any alternative other than PCS now...i a simple M.Sc degree holder...i do not know what i will do next...i had pinned my hopes on this

Target_2014_15

@badman : it may look weird and impossible but you still have some 40-41days left. Try to give 14 hours a day and the game can be still yours.

+1 Give it all you've got for 40 days , all the best @badman !

badman

@badman : it may look weird and impossible but you still have some 40-41days left. Try to give 14 hours a day and the game can be still yours.

+1 Give it all you've got for 40 days , all the best @badman !

like i said i want to give my bestest...but am scared and anxiety doesnt let me to study....under immense pressure

gitesh

dude ,first of all make plan of each and every day . dont focus on exam , focus on 2day ie means when it is 3rd nov do job for 3rd nov(work assigned to complete on that day ((just think of the day you are in . dont think of exam .i know its easy to say , but hard to follow. but we can follow this techquie it helps a lot . i follow that ..........