how to cope up with heart break during ias exam preparation

vstoljockey

i know i m behaving like 13 year old and this is the forum strictly for studies but (hope u understand)
actually today suddenly parents of my girlfriend fixed her marriage with a guy phla uski bhen ki shade ho rhe thi ak sath he paisa bchana ka lia uski bhe fix kar deki dono ki sath ho jayge
i m not settled yet and she is not going to revolt and taking any stand
agar 2 saal bhe ruk jata uska parents kuch kar pata mai
ab kuch nhe ho sakta
us ka lia he to mai itne mehnat kar rha tha suddenly i m aimless
but i m struck somewhere its hampering my studies so i m asking what to do to regain my sense in studies
sorry if i posted against the rule of this forum
plzz help me how to manage myself and regain my focus

422

@vstoljockey yeh toh hona hi tha. u can do nothing about it. chill. Listen to rajesh khanna songs and try to study and work hard and see it as revenge on the world. that is all u can do.

vstoljockey

yes i ll try to take revenge from the world
but now this feeling is killing me mera bhai

raipuriya

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Ziel

@vstoljockey
Albert Einstein said: “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”

if today you're pursuing your goal for gf, tomorrow you'll do it for parents...then relatives...forget others...do this for yourself...people come & go...if that girl really loved you, she'd have had the courage to take a stand for you...

many upsc aspirants have faced breakups because their g/bfs could not wait for them...welcome aboard...thode din ro...fir LBSNAA me hasna

vstoljockey

thax @shishir and @khajoor bhai
jase he mnn dukhe hota hai ma apka jwab pdna lgta hu
ma sirf uska lia mehnat kar rha tha mnn nhe karta tha pdna ka tab bhe sirf uska lia m going n going
but everything shattered ase feel hua ajase aimless ho gya achanak

Ziel

@vstoljockey
i assume you were preparing for 2013...today's 14th...take a break this month...introspect a bit meanwhile...sometimes we need a jolt to make us realise the aim of our life...ups & downs teach us what's really important to us...

just imagine if you clear cse 2013, what will be people's reaction? people will say "bande me itni cali thi, pata nahi tha"

weeping is for a short while...joy comes in the morning

ASingh

@vstoljockey Bhai, tu akela nahi hai. Yeh sangharsh ki ghadi hai, sangharsh kar.

Neyawn

@vstoljockey Bhai, tu akela nahi hai. Yeh sangharsh ki ghadi hai, sangharsh kar.

Exactly. You know what they say when you're going through hell? Keep going.

Ziel

@vstoljockey Bhai, tu akela nahi hai. Yeh sangharsh ki ghadi hai, sangharsh kar.

sahi kaha! sabne jhatke khaye hue hain

robinolds

Gangs of Wasseypur dekho, apne saare dukh bhool jaoge aur sochoge ki life fir bhi itni buri nahi hai jitni ho sakti thi...