I started talking to a guy 10 days back. He is preparing for IES and since i have not met him or talked much but he seems to be serious for preparation an d he likes me the way i am and likes my voice , however its too early for me to conclude anything.
The issue is i have never been into relatinship in past. Yes i do fell in love but it was only one sided. So mostly i have lived free and not committed to talk to someone daily or care or meet etc. However this guy wants to take it further and now as a friend wants to talk to me half an hour daily in late evening. However, i feel bounded and caged and cant call or pick his calls everyday.. however i do sense alot of respect from him. And also it takes a huge effort on my part to get fine after breakups/ memories etc. These relationships have a potential of creating turmoil in ones mind n studies. I fear it alot.
Wat should i do? How do i stop talking to this guy completely?
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Answer lies in your post.
Kuch nahi rakha in sab me. Emotionally weak ho to jyada involve mat hona in sab me baki tumhari marzi.
Sabko aadar do. Sabka Maan Sammaan karo. Bahut achhi baatein hai sab..... Selection or No Selection... UPSC or no UPSC.. Kuch bhi ho.. Lekin Pyaar sirf Teen logon se hi karo -- Maa Baap aur Bhagwaan....
Mera yakeen karo. Aisa karti ho toh kabhi Aankh se EK aansu bhi Nahi aayega.
Baaki toh its your life. Aapki zindagi hai. Jo karna hai wo karne ke liye Swatantra hain aap.
Now please go and study