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how do you cope up with mood swings and emotional up downs during your preparation journey?

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  • I have the worst experience of break up...despite more than one year has passed I'm still in the trauma of separation many times thought to consult psychiatrist but avoided as it may again make me feel weaker....wrote mains this time but couldn't qualify ....now joined gym ,keep talking to family and good friends . I have shared my story earlier on forum.....my advice would be to avoid any relationship at this point of time
    yes u shud be GAY n happy
    I wish I could without emotions :D
    @nirwana you can share your story here as well if you want.
    Bhai @Sarkari Chilam here is my story
    http://discuss.forumias.com/discussion/21924/mains-2016-analysis-experience-difficulty-level-expected-cut-off/p2240
    Bhai, you might have gone through bad phases..and by that I mean, some Really Bad phases but never consider your case to be the worst of them all. Just focus on what you could do now so that you can have better odds of achieving your goals in the future. Do something constructive everyday to inch closer to your goal. Every single day. Do not expect anything from life because expectations lead to disappointments. Instead, do your work with utmost sincerity and passion so that at the end of the day ,you could have the satisfaction of having tried your heart out. I do it for myself..having gone through some really really bad times..atleast trying. And maybe I too am inching closer to Nirwana ;) Stay strong no matter what. It isn't over until its over !

    Bhai maine lyf me hope rakhna hi chod diya hai....bs har bar apna best dene ka prayas karta hun...shayd kabhi kuch ho jaye.....n thanks bhai ☺
    Same here..Never consider yourself too weak..There are people in way more worse situations and still putting up a fight. Just Keep swimming.
    Yeah bro...khud ka haushla bahut jaruri hai aur main haar nhi manne wala hun....zindgi me sangharsh hai to hai....itna kuch face karne ke baad kuch matter nhi krta ab
  • I have the worst experience of break up...despite more than one year has passed I'm still in the trauma of separation many times thought to consult psychiatrist but avoided as it may again make me feel weaker....wrote mains this time but couldn't qualify ....now joined gym ,keep talking to family and good friends . I have shared my story earlier on forum.....my advice would be to avoid any relationship at this point of time
    yes u shud be GAY n happy
    I wish I could without emotions :D
    @nirwana you can share your story here as well if you want.
    Bhai @Sarkari Chilam here is my story
    http://discuss.forumias.com/discussion/21924/mains-2016-analysis-experience-difficulty-level-expected-cut-off/p2240
    Bhai, you might have gone through bad phases..and by that I mean, some Really Bad phases but never consider your case to be the worst of them all. Just focus on what you could do now so that you can have better odds of achieving your goals in the future. Do something constructive everyday to inch closer to your goal. Every single day. Do not expect anything from life because expectations lead to disappointments. Instead, do your work with utmost sincerity and passion so that at the end of the day ,you could have the satisfaction of having tried your heart out. I do it for myself..having gone through some really really bad times..atleast trying. And maybe I too am inching closer to Nirwana ;) Stay strong no matter what. It isn't over until its over !

    Bhai maine lyf me hope rakhna hi chod diya hai....bs har bar apna best dene ka prayas karta hun...shayd kabhi kuch ho jaye.....n thanks bhai ☺
    Same here..Never consider yourself too weak..There are people in way more worse situations and still putting up a fight. Just Keep swimming.
    Yeah bro...khud ka haushla bahut jaruri hai aur main haar nhi manne wala hun....zindgi me sangharsh hai to hai....itna kuch face karne ke baad kuch matter nhi krta ab
    Exactly.

  • Yrr bhailogo listen....

    Yrr 16 January 2017 ko padhai kar raha tha achanak chest me halka pain hua aur mene sabse badi galti kardi us chiz ko google kar dia( bhaiyo please kabhi bhi jab kuch ho to never google about it never never...) Aur google pe search karte hi dimaag kharab ho gaya....yrrr ghabrahat hone lag gai tension me aa gaya aur 20 feb tak mene ye chiz kisiko nai batayi kuch bhi headache yaa digestion problem yaa kuch bhi hota me net pe search kar leta tha.,. Aur dheere dheere vo net pe symptoms jo search kiye the une related jitni bhi disease thi like mere case me GERD tha to me ye sochne lag jata tha ki mujhe cancer ho ga ho gaa mere hath me thoda pain hota neck pain hota to me sochne lag jata ki arthritis ho gaya hoga esse baut se symptoms aur disease thi yrr vo sab mere upar haavi ho gai thi i was tensed and slpwly slpwly depression me aa gaya... Fir bhaya ko bataya then doctor ko and doctor ne ache se samjaya.,.. Fir pehle se kafi better feel kar raha thaa.... Pure time dimaag me negative feelings aate the anxiety ho jaati thi.... And now after 15 days today i am feeling better..


    And one advice please never google your disease/symptoms....never
  • Now need some motivation.... Kisi me man nai lag raha kisi me bhi nahiii... And as i told feeling better then before
  • I want to forget previous 2 months of life....and this negative feelings.....
  • I want to forget previous 2 months of life....and this negative feelings.....
    Bhai, Khush raha karo, friends se regularly baatein karte raho, visit new places with friends and keep sharing your thoughts..Remember to never keep these things to yourself..Sharing with friends and family always helps..

    And make your loved ones proud. It'll automatically make you feel proud of yourself. Hope it motivates you..

  • I want to forget previous 2 months of life....and this negative feelings.....
    Bhai, Khush raha karo, friends se regularly baatein karte raho, visit new places with friends and keep sharing your thoughts..Remember to never keep these things to yourself..Sharing with friends and family always helps..

    And make your loved ones proud. It'll automatically make you feel proud of yourself. Hope it motivates you..

    thanks bhai vese kafi time se real me akela tha

  • Now need some motivation.... Kisi me man nai lag raha kisi me bhi nahiii... And as i told feeling better then before
    @Pnkjsrma bhai akela mat samaj ... friends would be always with you.. never feel shy to approach your friends..
    speak out your fears here .. feel fresh..
  • I want to forget previous 2 months of life....and this negative feelings.....
    Bhai, Khush raha karo, friends se regularly baatein karte raho, visit new places with friends and keep sharing your thoughts..Remember to never keep these things to yourself..Sharing with friends and family always helps..

    And make your loved ones proud. It'll automatically make you feel proud of yourself. Hope it motivates you..

    thanks bhai vese kafi time se real me akela tha

    great advice @tedmosby ...

  • I want to forget previous 2 months of life....and this negative feelings.....
    Bhai, Khush raha karo, friends se regularly baatein karte raho, visit new places with friends and keep sharing your thoughts..Remember to never keep these things to yourself..Sharing with friends and family always helps..

    And make your loved ones proud. It'll automatically make you feel proud of yourself. Hope it motivates you..

    thanks bhai vese kafi time se real me akela tha

    great advice @tedmosby ...

    We are all in this together.. :)
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