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  • Advantages of being a rude person?!
    ppl stay away.. biggest advantage
  • Advantages of being a rude person?!
    why did u ask? do u consider yourself rude? @Holly_Golightly
  • Based on attached prompt..(and today's last also) :D

    Poem name: A love in forest.

    Am there for you.

    Snake's lusty venom
    Its lusty eyes and serpent move
    I ain't like
    I am to shield
    I will die, I will fight
    But why you sad, am there,
    For you.

    Me have only you,
    In this infinity forest,
    Filled with trees,
    and wild serpents,
    You're too tender to move,
    To search for food,
    I will roam, run and search,
    Take my share but don't go there,
    The world is cruel and pity place.
    Don't you run, I am there.

    Don't you run, I am there!
    जंगल में मंगल...

    जहाँ मिला मौका ..वहीँ मारा चौका...
  • Should we become rude for our future Job..anaytha.sab faayada utha lete hai..I become too lenient at certain time and @ most of the places..definitely a negative point for my future job.
  • edited January 2016
    Advantages of being a rude person?!
    why did u ask? do u consider yourself rude? @ Holly_Golightly
    Not rude publically..
    But personally ie to close friends n family..
    :sunglasses:

    And if not replying on WhatsApp or picking up your best friends call counts... Then I am a rude person... Moody too :sunglasses:
  • Should we become rude for our future Job..anaytha.sab faayada utha lete hai..I become too lenient at certain time and @ most of the places..definitely a negative point for my future job.
    balance maintain karna aana chahiye.. rude hoke subordinates se kaam karwaya nahi ja sakta hamesha.. also when you have to coordinate things, then you need to be diplomatic and flexible..
  • edited January 2016
    Advantages of being a rude person?!
    why did u ask? do u consider yourself rude? @ Holly_Golightly
    Not rude publically..
    But personally ie to close friends n family..
    :sunglasses:
    This is what we call Public-Private dichotomy...the most beloved word of Pub AD fraternity B)
  • Should we become rude for our future Job..anaytha.sab faayada utha lete hai..I become too lenient at certain time and @ most of the places..definitely a negative point for my future job.
    balance maintain karna aana chahiye.. rude hoke subordinates se kaam karwaya nahi ja sakta hamesha.. also when you have to coordinate things, then you need to be diplomatic and flexible..
    Where I work as of now..I am a pea...no real value..Does power,Post and authority change you..If I become IAS...how can I order a 40 years old uncle to do something..will my confidence be shaky...

    some puerile but genuine questions.. :#
  • मैं अछूत हूँ, मंदिर में आने का मुझको अधिकार नहीं है।
    किंतु देवता यह न समझना, तुम पर मेरा प्यार नहीं है॥
    प्यार असीम, अमिट है, फिर भी पास तुम्हारे आ न सकूँगी।
    यह अपनी छोटी सी पूजा, चरणों तक पहुँचा न सकूँगी॥

    इसीलिए इस अंधकार में, मैं छिपती-छिपती आई हूँ।
    तेरे चरणों में खो जाऊँ, इतना व्याकुल मन लाई हूँ॥
    तुम देखो पहिचान सको तो तुम मेरे मन को पहिचानो।
    जग न भले ही समझे, मेरे प्रभु! मेरे मन की जानो॥

    मेरा भी मन होता है, मैं पूजूँ तुमको, फूल चढ़ाऊँ।
    और चरण-रज लेने को मैं चरणों के नीचे बिछ जाऊँ॥
    मुझको भी अधिकार मिले वह, जो सबको अधिकार मिला है।
    मुझको प्यार मिले, जो सबको देव! तुम्हारा प्यार मिला है॥

    तुम सबके भगवान, कहो मंदिर में भेद-भाव कैसा?
    हे मेरे पाषाण! पसीजो, बोलो क्यों होता ऐसा?
    मैं गरीबिनी, किसी तरह से पूजा का सामान जुटाती।
    बड़ी साध से तुझे पूजने, मंदिर के द्वारे तक आती॥

    कह देता है किंतु पुजारी, यह तेरा भगवान नहीं है।
    दूर कहीं मंदिर अछूत का और दूर भगवान कहीं है॥
    मैं सुनती हूँ, जल उठती हूँ, मन में यह विद्रोही ज्वाला।
    यह कठोरता, ईश्वर को भी जिसने टूक-टूक कर डाला॥

    यह निर्मम समाज का बंधन, और अधिक अब सह न सकूँगी।
    यह झूठा विश्वास, प्रतिष्ठा झूठी, इसमें रह न सकूँगी॥
    ईश्वर भी दो हैं, यह मानूँ, मन मेरा तैयार नहीं है।
    किंतु देवता यह न समझना, तुम पर मेरा प्यार नहीं है॥

    मेरा भी मन है जिसमें अनुराग भरा है, प्यार भरा है।
    जग में कहीं बरस जाने को स्नेह और सत्कार भरा है॥
    वही स्नेह, सत्कार, प्यार मैं आज तुम्हें देने आई हूँ।
    और इतना तुमसे आश्वासन, मेरे प्रभु! लेने आई हूँ॥

    तुम कह दो, तुमको उनकी इन बातों पर विश्वास नहीं है।
    छुत-अछूत, धनी-निर्धन का भेद तुम्हारे पास नहीं है॥
  • edited January 2016
    Advantages of being rude--
    U don't need to explain every time..
    U have your personal space
    U are not bothered too much
    U don't need much manana n all.. As I think such people get easily gussa n all..
    -It can lead to people thinking u like being alone... N u end up thinking how lonesome u are..
    - I don't think rudeness helps in public sphere
    - rudeness for me speaking your mind.. U don't want to go somewhere u say no. U don't want to talk u don't.. And one needs to balance it..

    Obviously u can not knowingly choose to be someone... Sabka apna character hai... Shouldn't be confused with running away from responsibility but letting people who understand u know what u want and obviously knowing when u

    Personal opinion
    Chalo bye.. :)
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