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Dealing with Failure in the UPSC Civil Services Examination

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  • Yaar Maine toh jhuth bol diya ..mere Papa mummy Baut dukhi ho jate hain.. Last time toh ghar me aisa mahol ho gya jaise someone died ab mai apne aap se nafrat karne laga hu...2 saal ho gaye ye pre hi nhi nikalta ..kya main dreaming of IAS...this is the mostest saddest phase of my life...ab pata bhi nhi kya karu..kaha jau..or ye sab kab tak chalta ragega..even I don't know why m writing here ...anyway
    Let me cry more till I will tired of crying
    bhai.........believe me same family situation as you have,they can not listen my failure............ for the time being it's good that you told lie. but if you will not share your feelings with parents then you can not reduce your stress level ,will be in solitude & without confidence and can not concentrate on your study. lets the other world fuck but moral support and affection from mummy papa is must. at diwaali go home, and expose your lie at least with your mother and believe me(100 %) she will hug you. it has happened with me on 24th aug, when i reached my home after exam. apart from this, from time to time, tell your parents that upsc is about uncertainty, don't expect from me high, what can i do my 100% but can not guarantee my selection. this will create a tolerance capacity in your parents as well. why to cry? it's not end of life or vaise bhi khell abhi khatm kahan hua hai mere dost. forget everything, watch movies, make jokes, follow your hobbies which will make you happy again........keep smiling my friend............ :)
    Very wise advice . @Bluestar , Please consider it .

    Yeah but my mind is not with me...will surely tell my parents but after diwali...I want them to enjoy diwali yaar...I am very thankful for people here on forum


  • Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
  • Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
    yaar ye to teri GF hi bata sakti ki , usse tu kaha pe loose karta hai.... :D :D agar samjhdaar GF hai to exam ke vajah se to looser nahi bolegi..... :D ave bhai ab to hass ja, itna karra joke sunaya hai tujhe :P
  • Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
    Does she say that to motivate you, or she quotes L word to taunt you...
    If she motivates you, its good and well but if she taunts you.. leave her now...you will be happy and less frustrated...
  • Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
    yaar ye to teri GF hi bata sakti ki , usse tu kaha pe loose karta hai.... :D :D agar samjhdaar GF hai to exam ke vajah se to looser nahi bolegi..... :D ave bhai ab to hass ja, itna karra joke sunaya hai tujhe :P
    Bhai... Hasna itna sasta nhi
  • Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
    Usako puch tune konse jhande gaad diye hai chaand pe jo mere ko looser bol rahi. :D She's being judgemental about you just from one outcome. If she means what she's saying then you better reconsider your relationship. True love is unconditional with acceptance of each others weaknesses.
  • Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
    yaar ye to teri GF hi bata sakti ki , usse tu kaha pe loose karta hai.... :D :D agar samjhdaar GF hai to exam ke vajah se to looser nahi bolegi..... :D ave bhai ab to hass ja, itna karra joke sunaya hai tujhe :P
    Bhai... Hasna itna sasta nhi
    kyon bhai.............jab se ACHHE DIN aaye hai tab se tumhaari hassi bhi sabzi or daal ki tarah mehangi ho gayi hai kiya........ :D :D ave koshish karo hass jaoge........kyon life ko jabardasti bojhil bana rahe ho............ :D
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    edited October 2015
    Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
    Usako puch tune konse jhande gaad diye hai chaand pe jo mere ko looser bol rahi. :D She's being judgemental about you just from one outcome. If she means what she's saying then you better reconsider your relationship. True love is unconditional with acceptance of each others weaknesses.
    if u yrself are confident and still she calls u a loser.. better rethink about yr relationship.. koi b ladki ya ladka agar bure time me apne partner ka sath nai de sakta to achaa hai let it go...
  • Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser
    yaar ye to teri GF hi bata sakti ki , usse tu kaha pe loose karta hai.... :D :D agar samjhdaar GF hai to exam ke vajah se to looser nahi bolegi..... :D ave bhai ab to hass ja, itna karra joke sunaya hai tujhe :P
    Bhai... Hasna itna sasta nhi
    दोस्त जिन्हें हँसना आता है उनके आंसू भी हंसते हैं और जिन्हें हँसना नहीं आता उनकी हंसी भी रोती है। जो बीत गया उसे बदलना हम में से किसी के बस में नहीं है पर आज का दिन हमें कैसे बिताना है इसका फैसला तो हम ही करेंगे न की हमारी जिंदगी का कोई बीता हुआ उदास लम्हा।
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