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Hi somebody please help. I failed in total 4 attempts. Twice in mains and twice in prelims itself. Usually I don't care about the results i take everything in life very easy. But this time I could not face some of my colleagues n seniors in office and some relatives n particularly my ex girlfriend. I left her since I thought marriage could mess up my preparation. She too understood it and married some other nice guy. Now they are happy. I too Fell happy for her. But somehow after this result I feel like I have failed in life. I could not understand or explain this. I envy people who are married and happily living without any problem. I know this is wrong. But I could not control it. In the same time I not intrested in marriage too. I all the time feel d alienated from those family oriented people. I don't know why this is happening to me! In my mind I feel that only if I clear this exam, I ll have family, happiness, feel. Contended..like that! I don't know how to stop this thinking. I want to become normal again. I am not interested in dressing good..not intrested in saving money... Not interested in visiting my family... I don't know what is happening to me. Please help me n tell what should I do now. I feel meaning in life oly through clearing this exam. I am in big trap please help get out of this!
bro there are many out here in a similar if not the same situation.......i can very well relate to ur predicament........in part i can relate,to be true,to everyone's story here............being a failure its easy i guess to relate to other who have not been able to make it thru...........at times i too feel i m "lost beyond redemption" of sorts...........
i dont know if i should be telling u guys this or not.........as it looks predestined ........just yesterday i met a guy who was blind....i was going to my ofc .........i escorted him to his ofc....he worked as an LDC in ministry of textiles,near india gate,delhi........i asked him while i escorted him to his ofc about how he conceive things and most importantly peoples...and stuff.....and trust me guys even if i would be doiing nothing in my life i will be a living a much previliged life than what he does.........its almost looked to me as if GOD has conspired against him.........
i think this being a inherent trait of human being that he always compare himself with the ones who have more than what he has(be it anything...job ,car,girls......anything that u can possibly conceive of that is there under the sun)...........this life in itself is a relative quest for things that will never suffice.........
i m not a pastor sitting under a pipal tree, here to deliver a sermon.......but in keeping with the internet based trends of tendering free advice wherever possible .........i would suggest u guys to move on.....bcoz to move on is simply common sense.........
Nahi hua ..... only last attempt left .... bahut pressure aa gaya h ....... dont know what to do ....... earlier faced interview but ab confidence ki aisi taisi ho chuki h
Nahi hua ..... only last attempt left .... bahut pressure aa gaya h ....... dont know what to do ....... earlier faced interview but ab confidence ki aisi taisi ho chuki h
last attempt? you are in obc right, do you have a job or are you preparing full time? what was your expected score?
@jonitdeta.......sir, nothing can be reversed what happened, give us a message that life is not limited to UPSC only. you are more experienced, no advice will work you. but here you can give us an assurance and positive hope that failure is nowhere in front of capable man. sir do some positive talk also otherwise i will start to cry
@COLD_TURKEY u r a cute turkey,don't cry you ll gt thru UPSC and jonitdeta ll gt thru state psc >:D< @jonitdeta which subject u teach?
no specific subject bro.i teach the schoolchildren in my village upto class X.
Which state u reside in?
north east,bro.
Yaar I too want to settle down either in village or foreign major reason to try for govt job was this one as well.Won khula aakash WO nadiyan WO taaji hawa aur khubsurat najara!!! I am jealous of you! Anyway if u need any help and ready to relocate in city for time being let me know my family planning to set up some business in IT and education!
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i dont know if i should be telling u guys this or not.........as it looks predestined ........just yesterday i met a guy who was blind....i was going to my ofc .........i escorted him to his ofc....he worked as an LDC in ministry of textiles,near india gate,delhi........i asked him while i escorted him to his ofc about how he conceive things and most importantly peoples...and stuff.....and trust me guys even if i would be doiing nothing in my life i will be a living a much previliged life than what he does.........its almost looked to me as if GOD has conspired against him.........
i think this being a inherent trait of human being that he always compare himself with the ones who have more than what he has(be it anything...job ,car,girls......anything that u can possibly conceive of that is there under the sun)...........this life in itself is a relative quest for things that will never suffice.........
i m not a pastor sitting under a pipal tree, here to deliver a sermon.......but in keeping with the internet based trends of tendering free advice wherever possible .........i would suggest u guys to move on.....bcoz to move on is simply common sense.........
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