STUDY RELATED DEPRESSION HELP

Hägerstrand

Increasing cases of Sucide by aspirants
https://www.newsbytesapp.com/timeline/Delhi/35197/155652/delhi-20-year-old-upsc-aspirant-commits-suicide/amp/google

Any aspirant in stress related with study, career or any other issues can post their concerns freely here.

The purpose of this thread should be to assist such aspirants to realize that life is much more than academic success. Clearing CSE is a 'means', not an 'end'.
Love your life, your existence and all such things which came along with it.

So many kind souls at this forum will definitely help in overcoming it.
Note-while dealing with any case here, please avoid trolling as it can be dangerous.

truthteller

news says " 20-year old"..so how can a 20-year old not clear upsc exam?

Aanchal_S

In my humble opinion, you should just share various suicide prevention helpline numbers, if you have them. These kinds of threads often lose their purpose because the only advice people have is not to take the exam seriously. The people who contemplate suicide already know this and still end their lives.

It'd be better if they speak to people who deal with such cases daily and know how to talk them out of it. Again, just my opinion.

Hägerstrand

news says " 20-year old"..so how can a 20-year old not clear upsc exam?

May be stress due to comparison with fellow so called smarter aspirants. Whatever, a forward looking discourse needed

sss123

In my humble opinion, you should just share various suicide prevention helpline numbers, if you have them. These kinds of threads often lose their purpose because the only advice people have is not to take the exam seriously. The people who contemplate suicide already know this and still end their lives.

It'd be better if they speak to people who deal with such cases daily and know how to talk them out of it. Again, just my opinion.

People take LIFE seriously.....it's not just about one exam
That's why sometimes selected people also commit suicide

Hägerstrand

In my humble opinion, you should just share various suicide prevention helpline numbers, if you have them. These kinds of threads often lose their purpose because the only advice people have is not to take the exam seriously. The people who contemplate suicide already know this and still end their lives.

It'd be better if they speak to people who deal with such cases daily and know how to talk them out of it. Again, just my opinion.

Too often such people do not not accept themselves in need of help. Conversations with benevolent strangers here with no strings attached with their life can help.one of them can be the person we think is very happy too. My opinion

truthteller

news says " 20-year old"..so how can a 20-year old not clear upsc exam?

May be stress due to comparison with fellow so called smarter aspirants. Whatever, a forward looking discourse needed

the only solution for stress is to folliw d path of buddha i.e " shed desires to overcome sufferings"

however, people are so deeply absorbed in materialism that they are not ready to shed their desires and hence the sufferings and suicides follow

people themselves are the cause of their misery

Hägerstrand

news says " 20-year old"..so how can a 20-year old not clear upsc exam?

May be stress due to comparison with fellow so called smarter aspirants. Whatever, a forward looking discourse needed

the only solution for stress is to folliw d path of buddha i.e " shed desires to overcome sufferings"

however, people are so deeply absorbed in materialism that they are not ready to shed their desires and hence the sufferings and suicides follow

people themselves are the cause of their misery

Agreed. But at the same time we should always behave humbly particularly with new aspirants. People show off knowledge and how in few days they mastered every subjects.
New people here starts to think they can't clear this exam at this stage itself as in the Sucide news.

aiber

in my opinion
avoid comparison with fellow aspirants
and
Don't start relationships just for the sake of satisfying one's harmones

and create a back up after 2 or 3 yrs into. preparations

truthteller

news says " 20-year old"..so how can a 20-year old not clear upsc exam?

May be stress due to comparison with fellow so called smarter aspirants. Whatever, a forward looking discourse needed

the only solution for stress is to folliw d path of buddha i.e " shed desires to overcome sufferings"

however, people are so deeply absorbed in materialism that they are not ready to shed their desires and hence the sufferings and suicides follow

people themselves are the cause of their misery

Agreed. But at the same time we should always behave humbly particularly with new aspirants. People show off knowledge and how in few days they mastered every subjects.
New people here starts to think they can't clear this exam at this stage itself as in the Sucide news.

if one gets influenced by others, then one is foolish enough, wisdom is needed to lead a stressless life

one shd never compare onself with others..everyone is unique and hence comparison is utter foolishness

Chacha_Chaudhary

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