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IPS Officer In UP "Very Critical" After Consuming Poison

Very saddened to know this. God save him.
https://www.ndtv.com/kanpur-news/ips-officer-in-up-very-critical-after-consuming-poison-says-police-1911706
Why such incidents are increasing ? Is it true that grass is greener on the other side ?
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  • Very saddened to know this. God save him.
    https://www.ndtv.com/kanpur-news/ips-officer-in-up-very-critical-after-consuming-poison-says-police-1911706
    Why such incidents are increasing ? Is it true that grass is greener on the other side ?
    Maybe, but it can happen with anyone, not that IAS/IFS/IPS are immune from marital discords/issues
  • Jab tak life hai problems toh rahegi hi... yeh sochna hi bewakoofi hai ke IAS IPS IFS ban jane ke baad life ki saari problems solved. And yeh assume karna bhi bewakoofi hai ke yeh elite services mein sab logon ki life ekdum perfect hai. Har kisi ke life mein pange hain. Prime minister se leke har ek insaan tak. Kisi ki life mein jyada toh kisi ke mein kam. Koi jyada adapt hota hai bear kar lene ke liye yeh sab apni life ke experiences ki wajah se. Toh koi kam for the same reasons ke life ne usko experience nahin karaya jyada kuch, problems jhel jaane ke liye.

    So some people get succumbed to such pressures. And some don’t. Jiske tolerance level se bahar gaya things in life, woh phir life se bahar gaya. Chahe peon ho ya IPS. As simple as this.
  • edited September 2018
    kon bc bola shaadi karo bache paida karo aur phir unke khatir suicide karo , if u cant live in social life then its better not indulge in maritial practice live single and be happy. non sense people cant cope maritial issue and like a coward attempting suicide thinking every thing will be fine. These people dont derserve these jobs if they cant handle there own issue how will they handle public issue which is even more complex.
  • assass
    edited September 2018
    kon bc bola shaadi karo bache paida karo aur phir unke khatir suicide karo , if u cant live in social life then its better not indulge in maritial practice live single and be happy. non sense people cant cope maritial issue and like a coward attempting suicide thinking every thing will be fine. These people dont derserve these jobs if they cant handle there own issue how will they handle public issue which is even more complex.
    Beti Bachao/Beti Padhao! & jo below photo me jo bete wale hain unka kya? Unhe marne ko chod do?
    https://spiderimg.amarujala.com/assets/images/2018/09/05/750x506/ips-surendra-kumar-das_1536163360.jpeg Ye IPS ladke ki MA, BEHAN aur BHAI hain..

    Beti Bachane ke liye ladki walo ne 498 ki dhamki de di- IPS gareeb background se tha perhaps, ijjat uski poonji thi.. When the matter is between husband & wife, ladki ke ma-baap ka hak nahi banta ki BETI BACHANE ke liye pahuch jaye.. Jake Mahabharat ched di hogi.. NANGE ladkiwale logo ne use BEIJJAT karne ki kosis ki, CASE OF ETHICAL DILEMMA FOR IPS? But the step of suicide will most hurt his blood relatives.. In the garb of women empowerment, this is major trend nowadays..
  • Once again a reflection of our constricted social culture. Marriage seen as a matter between families and honour and shit instead of personal life of 2 adults. If they are having discord, they should divorce and marry someone better... why is that such a big deal in some places? Hopefully, the toxicity of arranged marriages, inane gender segregation and lack of dating culture will be solved in the future generations...so people don't have to commit suicide over simple things like marital discord.
  • sir pe laundiyo ko baithao toh yahi hoga..pehle bhi ek ias train se kat gaya..gareeb pariwar se aate hai per shadi ameero ke laundiyo se ker lenge..aur baad me katenge ya marenge...
  • Facts of the case aren't out, but the jury sure is.
  • Facts of the case aren't out, but the jury sure is.
    Was I judgmental? :neutral:
  • sir pe laundiyo ko baithao toh yahi hoga..pehle bhi ek ias train se kat gaya..gareeb pariwar se aate hai per shadi ameero ke laundiyo se ker lenge..aur baad me katenge ya marenge...
    gareeb ameer ki koi bat nahi hai pyar karna nahi aata to kya kare shaadi sirf jismani bhook mitane ke irade se hoti hai jab bhook khatam hojati hai to pyar bhi samjo khatam. Insaan chahe lakh guna shaadi ki tareef kare lekin maksaad sirf ek hi hota hai. Pyar to bus kitabo aur filmo mein hi dikhta hai. aadmi jism ke liye shaadi karta hai aur aurat shukh jain or ayashi ki zindagi jeene ke liye. inme mein se jab kisi ko wo nahi milta jiski chah usne rakhi thi tab shaadi tut jaati hai aur pyar mano kahin ko jaata hai
  • Once again a reflection of our constricted social culture. Marriage seen as a matter between families and honour and shit instead of personal life of 2 adults. If they are having discord, they should divorce and marry someone better... why is that such a big deal in some places? Hopefully, the toxicity of arranged marriages, inane gender segregation and lack of dating culture will be solved in the future generations...so people don't have to commit suicide over simple things like marital discord.
    Man ki baat!!
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