The Night Birds - CSE 2018

jill

Hi peeps. Howz life

What will you do if your wife tells you on the night of your marriage that she loves someone else and married under pressure

I will make her watch 'Hum dil de chuke sanam'. She would realize her mistake.

You'll adjust and make her adjust you mean

Yup.

Woah!!
what if she tells you she can not adjust.
Still you will make her adjust?

Hmm. I pray , i don't get into such situation. It can make a good case study for ethics,though.

Haha. Why can't you just ask for divorce.
Is it that difficult?

Monsieur

Why are we here.

To ask this question.

How you doing.
what bothers you.

I am doing fine. Thanks for asking. That which bothers me is so deeply ingrained in me that I will annihilate myself in trying to separate myself from it. Haha

Why.
When its present in you like your eyes and ears . Then why do you hate it.

I don't hate it. It's just that I have yet to reconcile myself with it.

Why. When you are so sure it exists and will exist.
It is like a blind person who accepts he can not see and builds up from there.

Guess i am getting it all wrong. I know what you mean. It makes mind foggy and stagnant.

I am just having a lot of self-awareness these days, I think. Like you watching yourself. But I am not as bothered as I may sound here. Hahaha

psychopath

@psychopath Where have you been? Long time, no see.

Was in deep contemplation.Pondering over worthiness of life.Trying to invent meaning in life.Goal theory seemed to be taking me into enforced state of sadness.I came up with happiness theory. Pursue happiness,every moment of life.This might work.

jill

Why are we here.

To ask this question.

How you doing.
what bothers you.

I am doing fine. Thanks for asking. That which bothers me is so deeply ingrained in me that I will annihilate myself in trying to separate myself from it. Haha

Why.
When its present in you like your eyes and ears . Then why do you hate it.

So you are implying that one should make peace with it. Is this suggestion in the same vein as that given to a disabled person to look at the bright side of life. Yes , certainl

Sorry time up back to work

It is not about giving suggestion.
But if something can not go that means you accept it can not go. Then you should just build up from there.
If it can go then you should try to make it go if you want it to go. Simple as that.

making it go part takes time but it does work. It requires commitment and intension to make it go.

psychopath

Hi peeps. Howz life

What will you do if your wife tells you on the night of your marriage that she loves someone else and married under pressure

I will make her watch 'Hum dil de chuke sanam'. She would realize her mistake.

You'll adjust and make her adjust you mean

Yup.

Woah!!
what if she tells you she can not adjust.
Still you will make her adjust?

Hmm. I pray , i don't get into such situation. It can make a good case study for ethics,though.

Haha. Why can't you just ask for divorce.
Is it that difficult?

Divorce.Would be a epic failure.will ask her to take time.If persists then only parting ways.

1ManArmy

Why are we here.

I'm here 'cause my sister wanted to flaunt me as an IAS in front of her sister in-laws, to show her brother at par with their brother.

In short you don't have your own will.
That is one thing i hate. where ever they can everyone should employ free will.

Wonder what excuse you will have once youth is gone. Its your years you are putting and blaming her for ruining it. Easy way out.

Same excuse. I'd call a spade a spade.

jill

Hi peeps. Howz life

What will you do if your wife tells you on the night of your marriage that she loves someone else and married under pressure

I will make her watch 'Hum dil de chuke sanam'. She would realize her mistake.

You'll adjust and make her adjust you mean

Yup.

Woah!!
what if she tells you she can not adjust.
Still you will make her adjust?

Hmm. I pray , i don't get into such situation. It can make a good case study for ethics,though.

Haha. Why can't you just ask for divorce.
Is it that difficult?

Divorce.Would be a epic failure.will ask her to take time.If persists then only parting ways.

Oh boy! First she had to deal with her parents and then a stubborn husband.

Monsieur

@psychopath Where have you been? Long time, no see.

Was in deep contemplation.Pondering over worthiness of life.Trying to invent meaning in life.Goal theory seemed to be taking me into enforced state of sadness.I came up with happiness theory. Pursue happiness,every moment of life.This might work.

Salman Rushdie said that all good things happen in your absence. That is when you are not trying to get at that thing, but it comes to you as a side-effect. Pursuit remain always that: a pursuit. What do you think?

jill

Why are we here.

I'm here 'cause my sister wanted to flaunt me as an IAS in front of her sister in-laws, to show her brother at par with their brother.

In short you don't have your own will.
That is one thing i hate. where ever they can everyone should employ free will.

Wonder what excuse you will have once youth is gone. Its your years you are putting and blaming her for ruining it. Easy way out.

Same excuse. I'd call a spade a spade.

What made you such dedicated brother who is ready to give seven years of youth into a cause he does not believes in.
Must be having real comfortable future plans ready.

1ManArmy

Why are we here.

I'm here 'cause my sister wanted to flaunt me as an IAS in front of her sister in-laws, to show her brother at par with their brother.

In short you don't have your own will.
That is one thing i hate. where ever they can everyone should employ free will.

Wonder what excuse you will have once youth is gone. Its your years you are putting and blaming her for ruining it. Easy way out.

Same excuse. I'd call a spade a spade.

What made you such dedicated brother who is ready to give seven years of youth into a cause he does not believes in.
Must be having real comfortable future plans ready.

4 years