share your love / breakups / unrequited love stories.how do you deal with them during UPSC prep?

hopeless01

we are all at the age where many will be experiencing this in their personal life. this has a profound impact on our preparation too . i just want people to come forward and share their experience and help each other in handling these issues on their personal front.
kindly mods or root do not close the thread .consider this as one of the many useless thread . if anyone have problem with this thread ..please refrain from visiting this thread.
if you look at struggle thread, you will find many aspirants are facing these issues while preparing for upsc .so I started this thread to discuss these things on this threads. Many will be wondering why not visit reddit/ quora. But people there wont understand the perspective /problem faced by an UPSC aspirant. I hope mods/ root understand this.
guys/gals pour your hearts out here.

MOD NOTE - we sympathise with broken hearts. But there are threads to discuss this - bakar and night bird.

lafanga_warrior

Bhaiyo aur behno, jaldi se popcorn leke yeha pe aaiye. Thodi hi der me yeha pe emotional atyachar ka show start hone vala hai, jaha pe log apne bewafa Ex ki stories share karke apne dil ki bhadas nikalenge.

hopeless01

i hope guys /gals do this so that people can learn from others experience.

Hope_009

Just block all these topics from staretegic angle...keep them only when they are favourable or mend them in a positive way...if adding lot of instability such that apka dil aur dimag afghanistan ki tarah ban jaye...then withdrawal is only way out....but still there ..dont go into micromanagement of love breakups...manage it macro or better leave this aside...love me attempts ginati ke nahi hote...

manish22

This prep need peace of mind. N pyar-mohabbat k chakkar mind ki soundness destroy ke dete h... so better to avoid until u settle.

Subhash_Nagre

Ek hi advice hai.
Pyaar mohabaat dhoka hai
Padh lo beta mauka hai

O_baba

क्या प्यार करना गुनाह है ????

HatasEngineer

Ye wali smiley mili kahan se.

O_baba

Ivan_TheTerrible

My two cents...

Bahut acche se padhai karke IAS / IPS / IFS officer ban jaaiye.....

IAS /IPS /IFS banne tak Pyaar Mohabbat se jitna sambhav ho duur rahiye..

Academy mein jaaiye, aur fir wahaan jaakar jisko propose karna ho, kar dijiye ( Agar wo pehle se hi kisi ke saath engaged naa hui, to wo aapko definitely Yes kar degi....Aur agar usne Yes naa bhi kiya, tab bhi koi dikkat nahi kyonki India mein har Maata Pita chahte hain ki unhe ek IAS /IPS /IFS Son-in-law hi mile... To isliye kahin naa kahin koi naa koi Sundar Susheel Kanyaa mil hi jaayegi).

Agli baat... Pyaar Mohabbat Relationship Shaadi Byaah ---- ye sab kuch poori tarah se, main keh raha hoon poori tarah se Kismat ki cheez hoti hai..... Jahaan jisse jis tarah se Pyaar Mohabbat aur Shaadi hona likhi hai, usi tarah se hokar rahegi.. Bhale hi koi kuch bhi kar le.....

Humaare bade buzurgo ne ekdum sahi kaha ki Jodiyaan Ishwar hi banaataa hai...

To agar Parampita Parmeshwar ne aapka naam kisi se jodd diya hai, to poori Duniya idhar ki udhar ho jaaye, lekin wo insaan aapko milkar hi rahega. .. Aur agar aapki kismat mein wo insaan NAHI hai, to bhale hi aap fir poori Duniya ko idhar se udhar kar dena...tab bhi kuch bhi NAHI hone wala..

Isliye jo aapka hai, jiske saath aapka naam likha hua hai wo aapko ZARUR ZARUR ZARUR milega...

Umaapati Bhagwaan Shiv Shankar hum sabhi par apni kripaa Banaaye rakhe...

biglebowski

I was in love with my rug which really tied the room together