Dealing with Failure in the UPSC Civil Services Examination

Pars Sagar

Those who are feeling dejected….should first kick out the fear or society out of your head…this we must understand ASAP that we are not living for society but for us.

When I started preparation I was already ""12 years down the lane"" after graduation (I finished undergrad in 2001, got this chance due to OBC and more relaxed age policy of recent years). First Mains 2013 , second in 2014…..both times Failed with "flying colors"…..On ""April 12th"" 2015 (mains 2014 result was out) life looked blank…after 6 cans of beer I shoot 6 emails with attached CV for postdoctoral positions in US and Europe…4 days later…One positive call from US….joining date 15 sept 2015. On Aug 24th, I felt like I have done enough to write mains one last time…so rejected the US call (they did not agree to postpone)….come Oct 12th after cutting the Bday cake my roommate called (I thought It was for Bday wishes that f***** was late as usual ) from karol bagh…Pre result is out….""so was I"" from the Mains Race….again time for 6 beers …..this time I had to finish them before midnight …bcz navratre sure hone wale the and my roommate did not want to take risk for mains-2015 ( he was through pre)…I thought I can cry after having beers….instead I shoot again 4 emails….today I am writing this msg after getting one positive call….
Moral of the story ""pal pal badalti hai roop jindgi"..no body can console you except yourself…..people say I have one more chance ( I am 34, OBC)..I said ""Na baba na"" enough adventure…time to sleep on the bed again…for last one year and half sleeping on the floor so that ""subah bina alarm ke aankh khool jaye""……daddy is sad and mumma said ""ab tu mere pass rah 2-4 mahine ghee-doodh kha ""sale IAS ne mera Chora sukhha diya"……though in reality I have gained weight due to long seatings ……Ek kashish dil mai hai aur shayad hamesha rahe….But aid akaun hai jisko wo sub kuch mila ho jo unhone chaaha ho….I am back from Delhi ajj butter and chutney ka mjaa liya….This sunday going to Haridwar with parents…7 days tour..

Muktibodh

@2by2_6by6 any insider info on optional next year, rahega ya nahi?

hata do optional..

Tum kahogi to aandolan kar dunga optional hatwane k liye

mai to khud andolan karne ko taiyar hun.. pub ad wale bechare aur kar b kya sakte hain :P

Tum kyo aandolan karogi ....... m hoon na ...... m krunga tumhari taraf se

2by2 अगर जीवन में कभी डेट पर जाने का अवसर मिले तो थोडा खाना सामने वाली को भी खा लेने देना नहीं तो उससे कह दो की तुम क्यों खाओगी खाना...मैं हूँ न...मैं खाऊंगा तुम्हारी तरफ से....:D

Muktibodh

waise simr ka signature dekh k hi samaj jana chahiye .. koi b ladki esa nai likhegi :P

matlab.. itna dramatic way me to koi nai likhega

simr को अभी बहुत प्रेक्टिस करनी पड़ेगी लड़की बनने के लिए हर दिन कोई न कोई पकड़ लेता है।

Nova

Yaar ye loser ka kya Matlab hai bhai... My gf says m loser...I know I couldn't get thru even first phase of this exam...so am I loser

Usako puch tune konse jhande gaad diye hai chaand pe jo mere ko looser bol rahi. She's being judgemental about you just from one outcome. If she means what she's saying then you better reconsider your relationship. True love is unconditional with acceptance of each others weaknesses.

if u yrself are confident and still she calls u a loser.. better rethink about yr relationship.. koi b ladki ya ladka agar bure time me apne partner ka sath nai de sakta to achaa hai let it go...

@AD kabhi orientation change ho to batana mujhe

Accha...ab samaj me aaya mujhe itni badi signature ki dukh bhari dastan... ;;) )

Ye toh uska result hai

Uska...kiska... :-? ;;)
Kaun tha wo... )

Nayak nahin khalnayak tha woh

Abhi abhi breakup hua hai kya... )

AD

waise simr ka signature dekh k hi samaj jana chahiye .. koi b ladki esa nai likhegi :P

matlab.. itna dramatic way me to koi nai likhega

simr को अभी बहुत प्रेक्टिस करनी पड़ेगी लड़की बनने के लिए हर दिन कोई न कोई पकड़ लेता है।

han.. but why not he/she replying after that.. :-??

semperfi

Those who are feeling dejected….should first kick out the fear or society out of your head…this we must understand ASAP that we are not living for society but for us.

When I started preparation I was already ""12 years down the lane"" after graduation (I finished undergrad in 2001, got this chance due to OBC and more relaxed age policy of recent years). First Mains 2013 , second in 2014…..both times Failed with "flying colors"…..On ""April 12th"" 2015 (mains 2014 result was out) life looked blank…after 6 cans of beer I shoot 6 emails with attached CV for postdoctoral positions in US and Europe…4 days later…One positive call from US….joining date 15 sept 2015. On Aug 24th, I felt like I have done enough to write mains one last time…so rejected the US call (they did not agree to postpone)….come Oct 12th after cutting the Bday cake my roommate called (I thought It was for Bday wishes that f***** was late as usual ) from karol bagh…Pre result is out….""so was I"" from the Mains Race….again time for 6 beers …..this time I had to finish them before midnight …bcz navratre sure hone wale the and my roommate did not want to take risk for mains-2015 ( he was through pre)…I thought I can cry after having beers….instead I shoot again 4 emails….today I am writing this msg after getting one positive call….
Moral of the story ""pal pal badalti hai roop jindgi"..no body can console you except yourself…..people say I have one more chance ( I am 34, OBC)..I said ""Na baba na"" enough adventure…time to sleep on the bed again…for last one year and half sleeping on the floor so that ""subah bina alarm ke aankh khool jaye""……daddy is sad and mumma said ""ab tu mere pass rah 2-4 mahine ghee-doodh kha ""sale IAS ne mera Chora sukhha diya"……though in reality I have gained weight due to long seatings ……Ek kashish dil mai hai aur shayad hamesha rahe….But aid akaun hai jisko wo sub kuch mila ho jo unhone chaaha ho….I am back from Delhi ajj butter and chutney ka mjaa liya….This sunday going to Haridwar with parents…7 days tour..

कभी किसी को मुकम्मल जहाँ नहीं मिलता
कहीं ज़मीं तो कहीं आसमां नहीं मिलता

shopra

Kuchh special Rhyming hona chahiye----->

I am not a topper.
Don't be afraid of grass-hopper
Flying on chopper
Don't say me a flopper!!

बकवास बंद कर।
) )

AD

Kuchh special Rhyming hona chahiye----->

I am not a topper.
Don't be afraid of grass-hopper
Flying on chopper
Don't say me a flopper!!

बकवास बंद कर।
) )

finally shopra back with a bang =D>

Tyrion_lanister

@tiyathebird :x "> <:-P

tiyathebird

@tiyathebird :x "> <:-P </blockquote>

tum kaun ho? :-O