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Maintaining Chastity during UPSC preparations (Why, How and Experiences)

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  • rastplyr said:


    The one and only thing to drive humans to do anything is pleasure. The indulgence in sensuous actions is just an example. Hence brahmacharya becomes a natural state of any person by following 3-stage path.

    a.)know other ways to derive intense happiness and pleasure from meditation or yoga or hard work or austerities or anything else other than sensuous actions.

    b.) try to forget the pleasure derived from the sensuous actions.

    c.)become the one who does not know the pleasure of indulging in sensous actions i.e. Child or child-alike

    If you want to follow brahmacharya seriously, try to become the stage a then b and gradually achieve the stage c. This way you can easily follow brahmacharya for rest of your life.

    For me, I have almost graduated all the stages that too very easily using pleasure derived from Pranayam esp. Anulom Vilom and Kapalbhati and indulging in severe hard work and austerities. It would give your mind strength to not think and thus slowly forget about sensuous pleasures.

    For more, follow and read all the posts in this group:
    https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=668071976567981&ref=content_filter&mds=/edit/post/dialog/?cid=S%3A_I100012092082074%3AVK%3A1777013382340496&ct=2&nodeID=u_1q_6&redir=%2Fstory_chevron_menu%2F%3Fis_menu_registered%3Dfalse&loc=group&mdf=1

    Also, as a must, read 'Practice of Brahmacharya no hath yoga illustration' by Swami sivananda(search on Google). This should be memorized by heart by reading and revising it as much as you can.

    Hi. thanks for this snippet of information. Actually, I wish to create a repository of information forpeople who suffer from such strong urges and want to use such an urge constructively. Could you please elaborate on certain methods to fight such urges specially for newbies. Also, could you elaborate on the implications (positive/negative) of chastity on UPSC preparations.
    Well, if you think rationally, I mean truly rationally, then coitus is a not a great option to ventilate your sexual frustration during this phase. There's emotional and psychological baggage involved as well. Plus, a few other complications, as well. Can be a hit or miss! So why take the risk.
    If you believe in medical science, which you should, as it has worked, pretty much, well in improving the quality of life of humans, then infrequent masturbation is not that bad an option, at all.

    All other things are pseudoscience. Abstenace demands a particular lifestyle (let's also agree that you are not a Tibetan monk!) and that's tough to pursue while preparing for this exam. I guess, this further reduces your options to either self-pleasure or taming of your thought processes. For the latter, you're better off consulting experts in the fields , if you can afford them, or just keep consulting the books.
    @TresspasserConvict abe sare tujhe ye badi badi batein shobha nhi deti. pure din to tu online pda rehta hai, laundiyabaji krta hai. sare tune toh ab tak puri ghr ki dewar rang dee hogi, saare laundiyabaaj!
    Ha Ha Ha. Main abhi prep phase se bahar nikal chuka hoon do saal ke liye. Abe main din bhar aaj Zindagi se baat kar raha tha. Laundiyabazi kaha se aa gayi beech me isme. Aur main kaha coitus kar raha. Bass bol raha self-pleasure is not a bad option according to medical science. Abhi mera dimag thanda hai. Sale frustated hai tu! Main chill hun be. Lol. :D
  • edited January 18

    rastplyr said:


    The one and only thing to drive humans to do anything is pleasure. The indulgence in sensuous actions is just an example. Hence brahmacharya becomes a natural state of any person by following 3-stage path.

    a.)know other ways to derive intense happiness and pleasure from meditation or yoga or hard work or austerities or anything else other than sensuous actions.

    b.) try to forget the pleasure derived from the sensuous actions.

    c.)become the one who does not know the pleasure of indulging in sensous actions i.e. Child or child-alike

    If you want to follow brahmacharya seriously, try to become the stage a then b and gradually achieve the stage c. This way you can easily follow brahmacharya for rest of your life.

    For me, I have almost graduated all the stages that too very easily using pleasure derived from Pranayam esp. Anulom Vilom and Kapalbhati and indulging in severe hard work and austerities. It would give your mind strength to not think and thus slowly forget about sensuous pleasures.

    For more, follow and read all the posts in this group:
    https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=668071976567981&ref=content_filter&mds=/edit/post/dialog/?cid=S%3A_I100012092082074%3AVK%3A1777013382340496&ct=2&nodeID=u_1q_6&redir=%2Fstory_chevron_menu%2F%3Fis_menu_registered%3Dfalse&loc=group&mdf=1

    Also, as a must, read 'Practice of Brahmacharya no hath yoga illustration' by Swami sivananda(search on Google). This should be memorized by heart by reading and revising it as much as you can.

    Hi. thanks for this snippet of information. Actually, I wish to create a repository of information forpeople who suffer from such strong urges and want to use such an urge constructively. Could you please elaborate on certain methods to fight such urges specially for newbies. Also, could you elaborate on the implications (positive/negative) of chastity on UPSC preparations.
    Well, if you think rationally, I mean truly rationally, then coitus is a not a great option to ventilate your sexual frustration during this phase. There's emotional and psychological baggage involved as well. Plus, a few other complications, as well. Can be a hit or miss! So why take the risk.
    If you believe in medical science, which you should, as it has worked, pretty much, well in improving the quality of life of humans, then infrequent masturbation is not that bad an option, at all.

    All other things are pseudoscience. Abstenace demands a particular lifestyle (let's also agree that you are not a Tibetan monk!) and that's tough to pursue while preparing for this exam. I guess, this further reduces your options to either self-pleasure or taming of your thought processes. For the latter, you're better off consulting experts in the fields , if you can afford them, or just keep consulting the books.
    @TresspasserConvict abe sare tujhe ye badi badi batein shobha nhi deti. pure din to tu online pda rehta hai, laundiyabaji krta hai. sare tune toh ab tak puri ghr ki dewar rang dee hogi, saare laundiyabaaj!
    dewar rang dee hogi :joy:
    Bhai ye dialogue mera ek dost maarta tha bhut lol ....sad iss thread pr log patang udaane se bachna chahte he :lol:
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  • edited January 20

    rastplyr said:


    The one and only thing to drive humans to do anything is pleasure. The indulgence in sensuous actions is just an example. Hence brahmacharya becomes a natural state of any person by following 3-stage path.

    a.)know other ways to derive intense happiness and pleasure from meditation or yoga or hard work or austerities or anything else other than sensuous actions.

    b.) try to forget the pleasure derived from the sensuous actions.

    c.)become the one who does not know the pleasure of indulging in sensous actions i.e. Child or child-alike

    If you want to follow brahmacharya seriously, try to become the stage a then b and gradually achieve the stage c. This way you can easily follow brahmacharya for rest of your life.

    For me, I have almost graduated all the stages that too very easily using pleasure derived from Pranayam esp. Anulom Vilom and Kapalbhati and indulging in severe hard work and austerities. It would give your mind strength to not think and thus slowly forget about sensuous pleasures.

    For more, follow and read all the posts in this group:
    https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=668071976567981&ref=content_filter&mds=/edit/post/dialog/?cid=S%3A_I100012092082074%3AVK%3A1777013382340496&ct=2&nodeID=u_1q_6&redir=%2Fstory_chevron_menu%2F%3Fis_menu_registered%3Dfalse&loc=group&mdf=1

    Also, as a must, read 'Practice of Brahmacharya no hath yoga illustration' by Swami sivananda(search on Google). This should be memorized by heart by reading and revising it as much as you can.

    Hi. thanks for this snippet of information. Actually, I wish to create a repository of information forpeople who suffer from such strong urges and want to use such an urge constructively. Could you please elaborate on certain methods to fight such urges specially for newbies. Also, could you elaborate on the implications (positive/negative) of chastity on UPSC preparations.
    Bhai initially to ek hi tarika hai try to remain busy and try to remain away as much as you can from indulging in sexual actions. Slowly the desires would wein away. Indulging in desires not only weakens you physically but also mentally and thus makes you mure prone to indulge in the same act again. Indulging to Aag mein ghee dalne jaisa hai, the fire would enhance exponentially.
    Remain spiritual and focused on what you do. More and better is written in 'Practice of Brahmacharya no hath yoga illustration' by Swami sivananda.
  • Hi. What are the impacts of being a chaste on depression and loneliness. Would love to hear such experiences.
  • Being chaste and by following noFAP league.. What benefits I have got:
    1. More confidence
    2. Less time wastage
    3. More physical vigour and stamina
    4. More focussed, good retention power, memory enhancement.
    5. General feeling of happiness, when you love your day an you don't know the reason why!?

    Earlier, whenever I used to get depressed or felt lonely I used to visit x vdos. It was 'my third level', every person has 3rd level.. It is a place, thing or feeling we get into to forget our problems and relieve ourselves from the tension.
    But outcome was always depressing. Like any other boy I used to feel bad after masturbating.
    And when you're someone who wastes whole day in this act because you feel relieved for the time being and after that realize that this is making you weak and no good is coming out of it. You feel more dejected.

    It becomes more hard when you see girls outside wearing provocative clothing.. You really think of her or her any part for whole day.. In reality you're not going to get her and even if you get her your preparation will be over.
    This was the reason our forefathers refrained us from indulging in sexual thoughts or acts.
    It kills our focus and hard work.

    Even after refraining some day of the month a situation arises when you feel like having someone but that's it! Kill the first thought of sex when comes to your mind.. Slowly and steadily it becomes our habit. And when you get in noFAP zone for more than 2 months.. You have passed the hardest test of life. Sensual thoughts will never bother you again.
    There is no god but God
  • edited January 25

    Hi. What are the impacts of being a chaste on depression and loneliness. Would love to hear such experiences.

    Being chaste is a spiritual experience, you start noticing world through new eyes, it's like being reborn with the same childlike innocence and purity of soul for which we all have had felt nostalgic at some point in our lives. Your mornings are energetic, your noons very fruitful , and your nights very enriching as you're able to devote more time to your hobbies like reading a manga before going to bed. You are astonished by the amount of free time you are able to extract from your supposedly busy days. The energy dissipation , the tiredness, the guilt, and frustration resulting from masturbation is substituted with a new found vigour , a clarity of thought ; your whole being is suffused with a feeling of wellbeing.        
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  • On nofap mode since last 6 months.
    Feeling much better than before
    More concentration
    More energetic
    Less depression
    Memory retention power is more now.
    But along with that disciplined life is more important.the combination of these 2 can do miracle for sure .
  • On nofap mode since last 6 months.
    Feeling much better than before
    More concentration
    More energetic
    Less depression
    Memory retention power is more now.
    But along with that disciplined life is more important.the combination of these 2 can do miracle for sure .

    Aye aye
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  • On nofap mode since last 6 months.
    Feeling much better than before
    More concentration
    More energetic
    Less depression
    Memory retention power is more now.
    But along with that disciplined life is more important.the combination of these 2 can do miracle for sure .

    Congrats bhai sahab.
    There is no god but God
  • for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator
    An act of stealth, a silent coup d'état
  • edited January 27
    amsc said:

    Being chaste and by following noFAP league.. What benefits I have got:
    1. More confidence
    2. Less time wastage
    3. More physical vigour and stamina
    4. More focussed, good retention power, memory enhancement.
    5. General feeling of happiness, when you love your day an you don't know the reason why!?

    Earlier, whenever I used to get depressed or felt lonely I used to visit x vdos. It was 'my third level', every person has 3rd level.. It is a place, thing or feeling we get into to forget our problems and relieve ourselves from the tension.
    But outcome was always depressing. Like any other boy I used to feel bad after masturbating.
    And when you're someone who wastes whole day in this act because you feel relieved for the time being and after that realize that this is making you weak and no good is coming out of it. You feel more dejected.

    It becomes more hard when you see girls outside wearing provocative clothing.. You really think of her or her any part for whole day.. In reality you're not going to get her and even if you get her your preparation will be over.
    This was the reason our forefathers refrained us from indulging in sexual thoughts or acts.
    It kills our focus and hard work.

    Even after refraining some day of the month a situation arises when you feel like having someone but that's it! Kill the first thought of sex when comes to your mind.. Slowly and steadily it becomes our habit. And when you get in noFAP zone for more than 2 months.. You have passed the hardest test of life. Sensual thoughts will never bother you again.

    On nofap mode since last 6 months.
    Feeling much better than before
    More concentration
    More energetic
    Less depression
    Memory retention power is more now.
    But along with that disciplined life is more important.the combination of these 2 can do miracle for sure .

    Hi! Thanks for sharing your experiences with chastity. Could you throw some light on how did you get through the first few days/weeks. How did you fight that urge, specially when you were alone and you had nothing else in your mind.
  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
    I wonder that whether you understood what I wrote or just trying to show off your intellect? I spoke truth which is harsh.Period!!
  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
    I wonder that whether you understood what I wrote or just trying to show off your intellect? I spoke truth which is harsh.Period!!
    Monsieur with all due respect, please try adhering to the moral precepts of this thread. Please refrain from making derogatory, vilifying, pusillanimous, unsubstantiated , denigrating remarks about a gender of which you have know understanding. The ilk of people like you is quickest to salivate like dogs as, and when, some girl confers slightest of her attention to you. You wouldn't be so presumptuous in asserting that no one stays chaste by choice only if you had the slightest inkling about the rich culture and traditions of our sacred land. The history of India is replete with examples of Great Souls who through their own volition resolved to stay celibate throughout their lives. Chastity is not about of being ugly or hideous , it's a quest of self-discovery; an adventure unto oneself; an affair whereby one enters into relation of oneself with oneself.
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  • amsc said:

    Being chaste and by following noFAP league.. What benefits I have got:
    1. More confidence
    2. Less time wastage
    3. More physical vigour and stamina
    4. More focussed, good retention power, memory enhancement.
    5. General feeling of happiness, when you love your day an you don't know the reason why!?

    Earlier, whenever I used to get depressed or felt lonely I used to visit x vdos. It was 'my third level', every person has 3rd level.. It is a place, thing or feeling we get into to forget our problems and relieve ourselves from the tension.
    But outcome was always depressing. Like any other boy I used to feel bad after masturbating.
    And when you're someone who wastes whole day in this act because you feel relieved for the time being and after that realize that this is making you weak and no good is coming out of it. You feel more dejected.

    It becomes more hard when you see girls outside wearing provocative clothing.. You really think of her or her any part for whole day.. In reality you're not going to get her and even if you get her your preparation will be over.
    This was the reason our forefathers refrained us from indulging in sexual thoughts or acts.
    It kills our focus and hard work.

    Even after refraining some day of the month a situation arises when you feel like having someone but that's it! Kill the first thought of sex when comes to your mind.. Slowly and steadily it becomes our habit. And when you get in noFAP zone for more than 2 months.. You have passed the hardest test of life. Sensual thoughts will never bother you again.

    On nofap mode since last 6 months.
    Feeling much better than before
    More concentration
    More energetic
    Less depression
    Memory retention power is more now.
    But along with that disciplined life is more important.the combination of these 2 can do miracle for sure .

    Hi! Thanks for sharing your experiences with chastity. Could you throw some light on how did you get through the first few days/weeks. How did you fight that urge, specially when you were alone and you had nothing else in your mind.
    1. Though it sounds simple and similar to what other tell when "to kill the first thought of watching porn or masturbating when you get it as soon as it comes" but it is your only refuge. Kill it before you think further.
    Tell yourself- "nahi karunga Kuch bhi ho jaye".
    2. When you get the thought, just go out and have a walk, talk to flatmate or call someone.. Simply put, engage yourself in something immediately.
    3. Feel good and PROUD that you are refraining from something which is making you strong and will help you lifelong.
    4. Go for running, not walking. Walking is for old people. We are young and we should exercise. It helps in concentration and remove that 'fire' you get to flush out your extra energy.
    5. When you succesfully complete 1 month into this, 'watch porn'. Yes do it and don't matrubate. This will lead to more control and trust me slowly you will see things outside on road which are tempting but your mind will tell you. This is not for me, this is not for what I came for!
    PRECAUTION : when you'll watch porn after that its normal that youll have that uncontrollable urge to do it but as you'll refrain from it.. You may have little pain down there. Its normal. Its your nuts contracting and moving.

    Extra point : if you're someone who believes in astrology, then let me tell your mars or mangal is weak. One remedy is feeding something sweet to ants. :smile:
    There is no god but God
  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
    I wonder that whether you understood what I wrote or just trying to show off your intellect? I spoke truth which is harsh.Period!!
    Monsieur with all due respect, please try adhering to the moral precepts of this thread. Please refrain from making derogatory, vilifying, pusillanimous, unsubstantiated , denigrating remarks about a gender of which you have know understanding. The ilk of people like you is quickest to salivate like dogs as, and when, some girl confers slightest of her attention to you. You wouldn't be so presumptuous in asserting that no one stays chaste by choice only if you had the slightest inkling about the rich culture and traditions of our sacred land. The history of India is replete with examples of Great Souls who through their own volition resolved to stay celibate throughout their lives. Chastity is not about of being ugly or hideous , it's a quest of self-discovery; an adventure unto oneself; an affair whereby one enters into relation of oneself with oneself.
    Brother ..I have no words to describe your mental status .God bless you.my only advice is ;please see a psychiatrist!!
  • What about wet dreams if we get them in night as these are not in our control ?
  • Dead Man said:

    What about wet dreams if we get them in night as these are not in our control ?

    It's completely alright. They are not in our control. But with time it will stop happening.
    Do some intense exercise it will insure that your testestorone and immense energy is used somewhere else.
    There is no god but God
  • leave 1 attempt-> get married->have unlimited sex-> realise that sex can't provide food, money, status, satisfaction, happiness (in long run)-> Get divorced or stay married-> prepare for next attempt
  • leave 1 attempt-> get married->have unlimited sex-> realise that sex can't provide food, money, status, satisfaction, happiness (in long run)-> Get divorced or stay married-> prepare for next attempt

    unemployed aspirants ko kon baap apni beti dega :lol: :lol:
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  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
    I wonder that whether you understood what I wrote or just trying to show off your intellect? I spoke truth which is harsh.Period!!
    Monsieur with all due respect, please try adhering to the moral precepts of this thread. Please refrain from making derogatory, vilifying, pusillanimous, unsubstantiated , denigrating remarks about a gender of which you have know understanding. The ilk of people like you is quickest to salivate like dogs as, and when, some girl confers slightest of her attention to you. You wouldn't be so presumptuous in asserting that no one stays chaste by choice only if you had the slightest inkling about the rich culture and traditions of our sacred land. The history of India is replete with examples of Great Souls who through their own volition resolved to stay celibate throughout their lives. Chastity is not about of being ugly or hideous , it's a quest of self-discovery; an adventure unto oneself; an affair whereby one enters into relation of oneself with oneself.
    Brother ..I have no words to describe your mental status .God bless you.my only advice is ;please see a psychiatrist!!
    but why should I conform to your conception of what is normal. let's just live our lives by our ways , rather than imposing our wills on others, let's not take away the most important quality that separates human from others : the capacity to make choices and live with it's consequences.
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  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
    I wonder that whether you understood what I wrote or just trying to show off your intellect? I spoke truth which is harsh.Period!!
    Monsieur with all due respect, please try adhering to the moral precepts of this thread. Please refrain from making derogatory, vilifying, pusillanimous, unsubstantiated , denigrating remarks about a gender of which you have know understanding. The ilk of people like you is quickest to salivate like dogs as, and when, some girl confers slightest of her attention to you. You wouldn't be so presumptuous in asserting that no one stays chaste by choice only if you had the slightest inkling about the rich culture and traditions of our sacred land. The history of India is replete with examples of Great Souls who through their own volition resolved to stay celibate throughout their lives. Chastity is not about of being ugly or hideous , it's a quest of self-discovery; an adventure unto oneself; an affair whereby one enters into relation of oneself with oneself.
    Brother ..I have no words to describe your mental status .God bless you.my only advice is ;please see a psychiatrist!!
    but why should I conform to your conception of what is normal. let's just live our lives by our ways , rather than imposing our wills on others, let's not take away the most important quality that separates human from others : the capacity to make choices and live with it's consequences.
    Yes .stay blessed.But sex is a divine experience but only with a positive spirit,not easy to find in ORN.THUS BETTER STAY CHASTE .
  • The right stats for the amount of sex aspirants really have in ORN toh Gandhi medicos, batra, Apollo wala hi de skta hai!
    Ab koi thok me amazon se order karta ho ya protection na use karne me vishwas rakhta ho toh alag baat hai :smiley:
    There is no god but God
  • Sex over weed is awesome. A lo of aquaintances from ORN had great experiences with it.
  • create a sub thread for the orn junta. lol
    An act of stealth, a silent coup d'état
  • ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
    I wonder that whether you understood what I wrote or just trying to show off your intellect? I spoke truth which is harsh.Period!!
    Monsieur with all due respect, please try adhering to the moral precepts of this thread. Please refrain from making derogatory, vilifying, pusillanimous, unsubstantiated , denigrating remarks about a gender of which you have know understanding. The ilk of people like you is quickest to salivate like dogs as, and when, some girl confers slightest of her attention to you. You wouldn't be so presumptuous in asserting that no one stays chaste by choice only if you had the slightest inkling about the rich culture and traditions of our sacred land. The history of India is replete with examples of Great Souls who through their own volition resolved to stay celibate throughout their lives. Chastity is not about of being ugly or hideous , it's a quest of self-discovery; an adventure unto oneself; an affair whereby one enters into relation of oneself with oneself.
    Brother ..I have no words to describe your mental status .God bless you.my only advice is ;please see a psychiatrist!!
    but why should I conform to your conception of what is normal. let's just live our lives by our ways , rather than imposing our wills on others, let's not take away the most important quality that separates human from others : the capacity to make choices and live with it's consequences.
    +1 seems ORNization is going on.
    An act of stealth, a silent coup d'état
  • ann said:

    ann said:

    for gals, stay away from soft porn. kudos to the thread creator

    Chastity is gender neutral. It would be just great if some female members come forward and share their experiences with chastity during preparations. :-)
    Nobody especially a girl remains chaste by choice unless you are too ugly,a social or abnormal having sex is quiet common in ORN.DON'T WASTE TIME THOUGH.
    I wonder if you will make such comments on women if something similar is asked to you in your interview (which I highly doubt you will face, specially with your present bent of mind.)
    PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON ANY SEX. SPECIALLY ON THIS THREAD. This thread is for documenting experiences with chastity and not a private group where you can say anything about anyone. Please dont derail the thread. Thank you
    I wonder that whether you understood what I wrote or just trying to show off your intellect? I spoke truth which is harsh.Period!!
    Monsieur with all due respect, please try adhering to the moral precepts of this thread. Please refrain from making derogatory, vilifying, pusillanimous, unsubstantiated , denigrating remarks about a gender of which you have know understanding. The ilk of people like you is quickest to salivate like dogs as, and when, some girl confers slightest of her attention to you. You wouldn't be so presumptuous in asserting that no one stays chaste by choice only if you had the slightest inkling about the rich culture and traditions of our sacred land. The history of India is replete with examples of Great Souls who through their own volition resolved to stay celibate throughout their lives. Chastity is not about of being ugly or hideous , it's a quest of self-discovery; an adventure unto oneself; an affair whereby one enters into relation of oneself with oneself.
    Brother ..I have no words to describe your mental status .God bless you.my only advice is ;please see a psychiatrist!!
    but why should I conform to your conception of what is normal. let's just live our lives by our ways , rather than imposing our wills on others, let's not take away the most important quality that separates human from others : the capacity to make choices and live with it's consequences.
    +1 seems ORNization is going on.
    i dont stay in orn :smile: and i dont practice what i profess , you know :lol: :lol:
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